What To Do When A Man Attraction For You Fades 7 Tips You Must Use To Get Him Interested Again

It does not take a long time for the newness and excitement of a new relationship to die down and monotony to set in. When this happens your man's attraction begins to fade and he does not seem as excited about you as before. When you do get into this kind of rut either you breakup or stay put and repair the relationship.

GET BACK IN SHAPE

Well that's it. You have become too fat with all the tires around your midriff. If you have not become fat then you have either stop taking care of yourself thinking that there is no one else to charm any more or you have taken your man's appreciation for granted. This is applicable to both of you. Each one of you has to excite and charm the other no matter at what stage your relationship is in.

HE IS STILL YOUR LOVE INTEREST

Your boyfriend might also be your best friend. However, you have lost sight of the fact that primarily he is your love interest. Depend on him like you would on a best friend, but never lose sight of the fact that you love him and should also show that from time to time.

BRING BACK THE EXCITEMENT

Although it is impossible to bring back the old zing. However, you can make your life interesting by trying out new things together. As a couple take up dancing, fishing or trekking or any other activity that you two can participate as a team. This will reinforce your bonds and bring back the romance.

KEEP SOME TIME WHICH IS EXCLUSIVE TO YOU BOTH

Since you know each other well it is quite possible that you two date as if you are married. Stop those boring dates at the same old places. Think of something new and explore all possibilities. Taking a vacation and exploring new lands as backpackers will bring the two of you closer.

SIMULTANEOUSLY ENGAGE IN SOMETHING NEW ALL BY YOURSELF

Too much of a good thing is also bad. An overdose of each other can also be the reason for your man's attraction to fade. If you are there constantly with him he is bound to get bored. After all how long can you see the same pretty face and remain excited. Get busy and do things yourself and make yourself scarce.

NEVER LET THE SEX GET MONOTONOUS

Your sex life has to be more than exciting. Try new things and leave all the inhibitions behind. You have to show by your actions that you still enjoy getting naked with him for him to stay attracted to you.

LOOK AT THINGS FROM HIS PERSPECTIVE

Identify what is it that he seeks in the relationship and deliver without he asking for it. If he seeks space grant it to him. If he wants more commitment then commit yourself. In short identify the single most important thing for him and do it.

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