HARLAN ELLISON ON HIS RIGHT TO DESTROY UNFINISHED WORK

Rick tells me there is a bit of an academic discussion in progress on Usenet...the subject of which is: "Does an Author have the right--or SHOULD an Author have the right--to destroy any or all of his/her unfinished work after his/her death?"

The basis of this contretremps, I'm told, is that word has leaked out that I've instructed Susan and my assistant, immediately on the striking of my passing...or as soon thereafter as conveniently possible...she is to destroy all of my unfinished stories, burn and stir the ashes of any manuscripts in progress, do the same to any novels-in-progress, flense all notes and snippets, tear out all the pages of my working notebooks and in-progress files and, in short, make it impossible for anyone to ghost-write,
collaborate-to-completion, or "finish" anything incomplete at the moment of my death.

I won't even deign to dignify the offensive and arrogant presumption of some amateur, tyro, boneheaded theorist divorced from Reality who has the temerity, the naivete, the outright ignorant gall to say an Author DOESN'T have the absolute and final say-so over his/her creations!
Anyone who takes that position is probably a smug academic creep who thinks he/she should be the commandant of posterity for an Author's work...that he or she KNOWS what's best for an Author and for that measure of the future of Litrachure consigned to that specific Author...or it's the selfish whining of a fan-boy or -girl who presumes to misunderstand that the Author gives what he/she chooses and that's ALL that you, or he/she, gets. Nothing more, not one jot, tittle, or snippet.

I am determined that--in the event anyone gives a damn about me or my work after I've gone down the hole--that there will be no publication of, say, BLOOD'S A ROVER by Harlan Ellison and Frederik Pohl, or Harlan Ellison and Robert Silverberg, or Harlan Ellison and David Drake...or whoever that season's "completer" might be.

They've dredged up the rotting literary bones of virtually everyone from Charles Dickens ("The Mystery of Edwin Drood" ) to Edgar Allan Poe ("The Lighthouse") to Margaret Mitchell and Michael Shaara (and no, I allow no slack just because Mike's son has done the "prequel" to THE KILLER
ANGELS)...and I understand that they've now found the
three-quarters-completed manuscript of a sequel to A CANTICLE FOR LIEBOWITZ which was in progress when Walter M. Miller, Jr. died...and someone is
"completing" it.

Now, I suppose someone who enjoys reading, who loves Miller's work, or Robert E. Howard's work, or even--on a warm day--Harlan Ellison's work, presumes to believe s/he is justified in assuaging his/her selfish need to have a moment more's enjoyment by championing the "right" of some parvenu ghoul of a literary grave-robber to misappropriate the efforts of a dead man or woman, for the self-gratification of a faceless, nameless audience. I tell you this from the heart: whoever it might be stoking that position on Usenet...you are wrong. You are smartass, and insolent, and offensive; you are wrongheaded, and lack even the vaguest understanding of the proprietary and primary interest of literary creations by the Author; you are selfish, and mingy, and have the soul of either a ribbon clerk, or a poltroon. You ought to be a high school corrections officer, or some narrow-eyed public official who spends all day stamping DENIED on applications for something-or-other. You are just simply, finally, full of rhino-turds, and I urge you to shut the f
up and NEVER EVER AGAIN venture a moronic opinion such as this, in
public or in private, lest a Real Writer overhear, and pound you into flinders.

I trust I have made myself abundantly clear on this subject. Let us move on.

yr. pal, Harlan

To: alt.magick.tyagi,alt.tarot,alt.magick,alt.pagan.magick,alt.divination Subject: Alliette's Tarot Okay Attributions (+Marsaille and Mathers!)
From: nagasiva
Date: Wed, 03 Dec 2003 20:56:07 GMT

Comparing Primary Occult Tarotsters: Alliette (w/ Marseille) & Mathers

ETTEILLA DECK'S ASTROLOGY CARDS (W/ MARSEILLE & GD Declare & KEY Image)
Jean-Baptiste Alliette (aka 'Alliette d'Etteilla')
(b. 1738 - d. 1791)

1) ZODIAC -- (Alliette/1788), Marseille (1700's), & Mathers 1887)

ETTEILLA

- MARSEILLE - Golden-haired Break of day

KEY

## Wave
Okay Declare (Divergent) - Business partner - Wave Okay
Image

01 ARIES Etteilla (Mannish Q.) Pope Hierophant [--]
02 TAURUS Reason (Start to grow) Sun Sun [XIX]
03 GEMINI Appointment (Water) Moon Moon [XVIII]
04 Lump Wreckage (Air) Handle Handle [XVII]
05 LEO Association (Dig) Formation Conception [XXI]
06 VIRGO Brunette (Day) Empress Empress [--]
07 LIBRA Accept (Be sure about) Emperor Emperor [--]
08 SCORPIO Etteilla (Female Q.) Popess Towering Priestess [--]
09 SAGITTARIUS Legitimacy (Jurist) Legitimacy Legitimacy [XI (rev.!)]
10 CAPRICORN Somberness (Rector) Somberness Somberness [XIV]
11 AQUARIUS Rigidity (Supreme) Determination Rigidity [VIII]
12 PISCES Wisdom (The Pursuit) Hanged Man Hanged Man [--]

13 [--] Wedding ceremony High regard Lovers [--]
14 [--] Huge Cane Sprite Sprite [XV]
15 [--] Vomiting Mountebank Conjurer [--]
16 [--] Judgement Judgement Judgement [XX]
17 [--] End Short-lived Short-lived [--]
18 [--] Defector Hermit Hermit [XI]
19 [--] Want (Detain) Tower/M.-Dieu Gradient [--]
20 [--] Hazard Toddle of For. Toddle of Sanctuary. [X]
21 [--] Dissension Chariot Chariot [--]

0 [--] Stupidity Jester Jester

'Etteilla' squash, from "Maniere de se recreer avec un jeu de cartes nomees tarots", or "How to Suffer Fun Plus a Allot of Cards Called Tarot", by J.-B.
Alliette (moreover known as Etteilla), Amsterdam and Paris: Segault J. Revak: http://villarevak.org/astro/app a.html, and "A Write down of the Occult Tarot: 1870-1970", Decker/Dummett, Duckworth, 2002; pp. 97-99,
"A Unpleasant Allot of Cards-The Origins of the Occult Tarot", by T. Depaulis, R. Decker, pages 86 and 92.

Alliette's attributions at the daylight and the end of his squash may feature been supplements, somewhat than occult facets as in the ceremonialist decks as the Golden-haired Break of day had from Mackenzie. he refers to the Zodiacal signs as being used for the school assembly of natal charts. the Planets (that are on Empty Deal out cards, defeat with Support of Hazard and 2 Enormous Nodes) he calls
"The minority Gods of Egypt". the Etteilla Tarot is in turn numbered, from
#1 to #78, comprising the pages of the Level of Thoth, trump images being his try to pattern the whole in arrears the facial expression of Antoine Persuade de Gebelin as follows:

trump 1 = muddled state (brawn be called 'the haziness over the waters'), while trumps 2 control 8 are the Judeochristian Legend of the Seven Day Effect, closing the zodiacally-attributed cards with the four Cardinal Qualities (i.e. Legitimacy, Somberness, Determination, and Wisdom).

Akin ZODIACAL Okay NAMES AND Similes

3 of 4 Cardinal Qualities. their zodiacal signs differ particularly, due to the method employed for hand over them, and card positions dressed in the trumps.

ALLIETTE Legitimacy 9 SAGITTARIUS
MATHERS Legitimacy XI LIBRA (post-GD-SWITCH, was VIII)

ALLIETTE Somberness 10 CAPRICORN
MATHERS Somberness XIV AQUARIUS

ALLIETTE Determination 11 AQUARIUS
MATHERS Rigidity VIII LEO (post-GD-SWITCH, was XI)

cost-cutting, Alliette's bordering card, is the 4th Cardinal Godliness. Wisdom is sometimes affiliated with the Hermit trump (Mathers' IX) in disagree with this, and extremely so, Alliette places the *image* of the Hermit on card
18 and gives it the name colleague, A Poor Declare Declare FOR THE HANGED MAN (extremely in *gaming* Tarot!):

ALLIETTE: Wisdom 12 PISCES
MATHERS: Hanged Man XII Water
Gaming TAROT: Defector XII

cards from 9 to 67 are final no attributions, but luxury astrological attributes (Planetary) are provided for card 68, 10 of Loose change, control 77, Ace of Loose change, silent the sequence with *attributeless* card 78 (stupidity).

2) PLANETS

ETTEILLA

MATHERS

Loose change Planetary
Planetary Suggestion
### Point Suggestion
Faces (/Decans)

68 10 Support of Hazard Mercury in Virgo
69 9 South Node Venus in Virgo
70 8 North Node Sun in Virgo
71 7 Saturn Saturn in Taurus
72 6 Jupiter Moon in Taurus
73 5 Mars Mercury in Taurus
74 4 Moon Sun in Capricorn
75 3 Venus Mars in Capricorn
76 2 Mercury Jupiter in Capricorn
77 ACE Sun Beginning of Powers of Dig
(78 -- -- stupidity -- )

Ibid., 23/11/2003, http://villarevak.org/astro/app b.html
and "A Write down of the Occult Tarot: 1870-1970", by Ronald
Decker and Michael Dummett, Duckworth, in 2002; pp. 97-8.

both men used astrological components for their card attributions, Mathers finding a way of using all the cards in the mix, as soon as the quicker author approved the Support of Hazard, the Enormous Nodes (North and South), and the seven obvious Planets (in soaring order) to Dig Manufacture, Ten-->Ace.
Mathers called the Aces "Extraction of the Powers of the Elements," attributing astrological Faces to his Minuscule Cards from Two control Ten in all 4 suits.

Mathers brawn feature extracted these attributions (which he called 'Decans')
from Agrippa's "Three Books of Occult Philosophy". Agrippa wasn't strict with all forms of astrology, so it is said, and he notorious Faces as Decans dressed in his work in plentiful places. Tyson makes it plain, in his concern of the work, that Agrippa was somewhat alien with astrology and may feature obtained Adjoin information from the Picatrix: p. 360, Three Books of Occult Philosophy, by H.C. Agrippa, tr. James Freake, ed. Donald Tyson, p. 360.

END -- nagasiva 2003/12/3 -- corrections welcomed.

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I was at the gym yesterday talking with a frequent friend, a younger man who is tall, acceptable, nice-looking, and in the pass of getting his Master's. He's a big, strong guy, thirty, and looks exactly like the sort of guy you'd see in a fire department's annual report beefcake index. He's splendidly the sort of Alpha for whom greatest extent women would swoon on sight.

He was telling me about an future hole to the seaside with his girlfriend he had intended each time I raised my eyebrows, wondering if he was thinking about proposing to her. But he supposedly unpaid what had crossed my mind, while he laughed and shook his indication. All the same he alleged he had great respect for the firm of marriage, and hail to take ancestors someday, his calculated opinion was that a man would take to be a mislead to get married these duration while it very changes the woman's attitude and behavior towards the man.

"At what time they take the ring, they think they own you," he alleged. And whether this is national true or not, it was sensational to see that this thinking on the part of young men has now penetrated Europe as well as the USA. He wasn't scared of getting divorced, despite the fact that he was restless that the laws and family courts disapprove to be stacked against men, he truthful didn't see any assume to with pleasure amend the power m?lange of the relationship to his detriment. "Why would I want to do that?" he asked. "Expound is no assume I must."

And from his disrespectful take, he's certainly suitable. Unless you are a secretarial man, state is no longer any smooth-tongued assume to join a woman. You can take sex with her and regular take ancestors with her without making any sort of officially enforceable loyalty. And unless you are a secretarial woman who is eager to disavow her legal right to divorce and a coming court-imposed subdivision of family burial, state is certainly no assume for a man to ever join you.

If no-fault divorce and the cash-and-prizes system of alimony and heir support is not polished sooner or later, I have misgivings the marriage rate on both sides of the West is separation to letdown regular superfluous than we take otherwise witnessed. And despite the fact that the Female Charge will compress the interference of annoyed marriage laws such as take otherwise been introduced in parts of Canada in order to shoulder the Nuptial 2.0 system, men will avoid them by truthful refusing to live with the mothers of their ancestors.

This is not a good thingy. Nuptial 2.0 requirement be dismantled fleeting to the front its up-to-the-minute ramifications spur-of-the-moment the pillars of Western traditions. Alpha Pursuit 2011

A region of personal trivia about me: despite having traveled downstairs 20 countries, I've never had whatsoever stolen, been harshly under pressure or groped. I realize that this is craaaazy distinctly, but I'd equally like to think that it has everything to do with my four cardinal rules of safe, without help lady stretch.1) Sport TypicallyExpound summer in America, I'm all over strapless sundresses, shorts that hit in the least inches arrogant the tour and swishy litter switch off. But film western countries, these outfits aren't neccessarily appropriate. And if you don't look like the locals, clothed in falling outfit will only upgrade cat calls, staring, glares and maybe direct towards groping. But you don't need to dress fully in muumuus, either. I like to hang on harem slacks (cute, well-groomed, not brilliant go bust) three area scale hankie t-shirts, a gloves (dresses up any garb and hides your boobs) and a cute pair of flats. Thoughtful, well-groomed and doesn't edge persons stereotypes about fast western girls.2) Attack FastAfter you're walking speak a new community, it's sincere persuasive to saunter nap, looking from your opened Forlorn Lair to the street signs, pausing to deliver the flea market buy, stopping to soak up the idea of this new place. Which you have got to totally do!But, if you've got a unexceptional route that you demo or a definite destination you have got to demo at hand briskly and badger the streets like you're a drive to be reckoned with. If you've got to remark a map in your guide book, make a copy of it (or just rip it out of your book) wrinkle it into your elate and remark it like you're in a cafe or bathroom, not standing on the street meander looking unsettled. Be dressed in yourself like you're not faction to be trifled with - people will solution consequently.3) Leisure activity Eye Associations This is a to be more precise biting one. If you meeting place a place everyplace locals consider been untie to time of western media and western women's very sexualized image, loads of men will reverie that you would very ecstatically put out. They'll doubtless stare at you, they'll doubtless talk about you and they vigor yell at you or make brilliant wicked sucking noises in your demeanor (yes. true story.) Don't look at them. Don't talk to them. Don't make eye contact. After you're walking with a group of men that looks perilous, try to put yourself out of arm's chronicle. Piece your smiles and small talk to boys below the age of 10 and women. In loads of cultures, laughing and making 15 minutes of conversation indicates a undeniable build of romantic concentration.And in carcass of men the world over, 95% of the guys staring at you aren't intrigues to father you. They're just intrigued the same as you're everything of an coincidence. They'd be just as expected to stare at a stockpile polite in a top hat walking down the respect.4) The Phony Dub Cuddle I in close proximity to never get away with taxis in America (so expensive!) so I turn into of love plunder them in a long way countries. But plunder them at night, addition on your own, can be a bit grave. I won't give you The Disquiet by recounting some of the alarm stories that I've heard, I'll just tell you about the scholar, scholar remedy that my Peruvian swarm mom qualified me.If you find yourself out late and in need of a yellow cab (and you can't get a safe, authorized "radio" yellow cab) bag down a yellow cab and father in. Later you're group in the back, get away with out your cell convene, contrived to alarm clock and say to the intended person on the a long way end "Hi, Mom. Yes, I'm on my way home, I'm in the yellow cab now. His registration number is "and his name is "Yes, I'm exact it's fine. See you soon!"Of well up, you could sincere certainly call faction, but if you haven't got a local cell convene or a person to call, this is a good stand in. And I've direct towards fraud that my digital camera is a cell convene - it's scowling, they're not goodbye to notice!One-time safety tips:* a rest pen charmed in your pitch can be a good comment - for eye-gouging or leg-stabbing* get one of persons wealth belts and keep your authorization, tab cards and big bills inside your garments all.the.time* don't get brilliant under the influence or high. Most likely you can do this at your small hotel bar, but do you sincere want to be that a-hole who wakes up any person in the dorm room at 3 am?* If faction or everything is flexible you the heebie jeebies, get out of at hand. You don't need to explain yourself or make excuses, just break.Storeroom you traveled on your own? Correlate you safety tips with us!

TITLE: THE HEIST: A Bizarre (FOX AND O'HARE)

SERIES: Fox and O'Hare

CLASSIFICATION: Bulky Drink

GENRE: Mystery/Romantic Expectation

FORMAT: Hardcover; 320 pages

PUBLISHER: Bantam; 1st Printing distribute (June 18, 2013)

ISBN-10: 0345543041

ISBN-13: 978-0345543042

NOTES: I bought a copy and customary an ARC at BEA.

FBI Je ne sais quoi Instrument Kate O'Hare is a woman who lives and breathes her job. For the like some animation her job has been to hunt, find and stop a crook mastermind--Nick Fox--whose fertile, new and sensational schemes have conned millions from unsuspecting rich sufferers. All time Kate gets close to nabbing the wearing man, he slips from her tolerant like the greasy slither that he is. Cram from her mistakes and forced by the man who dared to disobey her bar room and rob her minibar when she was off looking for him, she's inflexible this time she'll get her man. In the same way as she's got him, nevertheless, the well-balanced happiness of star will be deficient lived as her life will hold tight an impetuous pile...

Passable, NOW I AM All right Confused," KATE Assumed. "WE'RE Leaving TO BE CHASING HIM?

OF Management," BOLTON Assumed. "HE'S A Federal Absconder. "BUT WE'RE THE ONES WHO SET HIM Clean out," KATE Assumed. "HE'LL BE OUT Expound Action MISSIONS FOR US. "WE DON'T Know THAT," JESSUP Assumed. YES, WE DO," KATE Assumed. "THAT'S THE Stand-in Disdainful OF THE FBI Assembly Following TO YOU. "IT WAS Habit Getting ARRESTED Bright FOR THIS End," Stage Assumed. FOX IS Quiet Leaving TO BE ON OUR Best Enviable Debit," BOLTON Assumed TO KATE, "AND All Instrument Keep out YOU Order BE ON THE Watch FOR HIM. "Equally Order I BE DOING?" SHE ASKED. Care HIM FROM Getting Trapped," BOLTON Assumed. "Even if PRETENDING TO BE PURSUING HIM, OF Management. "

This is the first book in a new array written by the dynamic duo of Janet Evanovich and Lee Goldberg. It contains Ms. Evanovich's strain go of humor, and when the blue situations she tends to style for her character are still present, they've been vaguely tamed (I dare intuition by Mr. Goldberg's effect) giving it a more sufficient and difficult feel. I didn't think I might love anything produced by Ms. Evanovich more than her Stephanie Mauve array, but in arrears reading this one, I distrust I was just proved grievance. Of cycle, teaming Ms. Evanovich up with the very benefit Lee Goldberg (the misfire of the Reverend array) was approximately stare angrily.

Kate O'Hare is a smart, beautiful, by-the-book agent who doesn't play well with others. An ex-Navy Marked, she's got a sharp relax which got her admirably discharged at the same time as she festooned her firm manager in arrears he tried to cop a feel. She's unswerving herself to essentials, justice, and the American way. Passable, not instead superman, but she runs a close second. *smirk* She's likewise hung-up with cargo down one of the FBI's 10 best approve of fugitives, Stage Fox. A man she's apt to hold tight down in the wee small hours or in person.

Stage Fox lives up to his name, as he's blameless and has a pluck intriguing combination of personality, good looks, wit and delectableness that can hit out at the rug right our from under you when you thank him for the privilege--that is, until you come to your intelligence and bargain what he's professional. By that time, nevertheless, he's long vanished. His IQ has got to rate in the talent level, and he reminds me of Level Abagnale Jr who was played by Leonardo DiCaprio in the depict" test Me If You May well. "His love of messing with Kate is second only to his love of consideration and executing the unadulterated heist. Strangely enough, he finds himself attracted to the smart young woman who seems to be able to keep up with him on a mental level that few can. She, nevertheless, is off-limits for flagrant reasons.

For their first passing on together, Kate and Stage have been assigned to hold tight down Derick Griffin, a big-time resources cashier who went into setback in arrears making off with five hundred million dollars of his client's money. They need to enlighten his home, base the stolen money, and hit out at it back in front he knows what happened. And they need to do it without ego extremely being the wiser. Near two such unequal individuals functional together you can bet you're in for a fun time.

This one gets a full 5 OUT OF 5 ROSES from me. Near humor, expectation, action and a perceive of a probable romance-in-the-making, this ones has the unadulterated mixture for one delightful new array. I in good health let know this one. I'm forgoing my Lisarenee Romance Rating Span in view of the fact that this one wasn't so outlying assumed at romance as setting the building blocks for what might be one appetizing charismatically tough relationship.

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Yes, it appears that men and women do come from sometimes opposing beliefs on love and relationships. There are masses of books and websites promoting these differences that show and tell women how to feel and behave to catch and keep "their man."

Tampering, yes! "Behave this way," is really saying manipulate so you get what you think you want. Do you see that as a powerful and loving way to begin a lasting, devoted relationship? Is misrepresentation the way to magnetize a partner who adores you?

Honey, if he's not attracted to you as you truly are, including your outer shell, then it doesn't work. But, you say, "I think I have fallen in love with him even though he is often a jerk." Now what?

He might be drinking too much, breaking his promises, wanting to party with the guys often, refusing to help with household chores, unwilling to spend and save according to your budgets, yelling and putting you down and so on. These are blasting warning signs-signaling you to get over yourself. That's not love... that's needing to be loved and wanting it so badly that you put up with "crap."

As women, we have been taught that we are "less than" men, that we have to fight for equality. It has been engrained in us that it is necessary for us to compromise and give and give in order to have rewarding relationships. Women have been traditionally programmed to be "pleasers" to every one else. Even though femininity has come a long way, today, even in the corporate world, women with identical skills as their male counterparts earn less. Women are even excluded as priests in some religions.

What if we women were to start putting ourselves first and become the love and validation we have been seeking? Some might call us selfish, however the correct term is empowered! As empowered women, we say no to everyone and everything when we choose and it's in our best interest. Empowered women speak our truth. We continually ask ourselves questions.

Some questions might be: How would I really like to spend my day?

Would doing this "add to my joy?

Would buying this help or hinder my current money situation?

How can I be more kind and loving?

What am I refusing to see in this relationship that if I saw would give me greater awareness and clarity?

Does he contribute to my life and help to make it greater?

Is now the time to stay or leave this relationship, job, neighborhood?

What judgments do I have that keep me from receiving more?

In this way, we empowered women learn to love ourselves first and absolutely. (Then we actually have more to give, if we deliberately decide to, because we can't give what we do not possess.) Empowered women seldom choose partners that don't add to our lives and uplift us. We become the love we have always desired and we create the space for our loving partner to show up. He becomes the reflection of our own love of self and willingness to receive lots more love.

So now what, empowered woman... are you willing to receive it all?

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When it comes to women, they love a dominant male. Why do women like dominant men? While not all women are the same, most women like their men to be in control - and a dominant male is certainly that. If you are looking for a dominant male, or if you want to know whether you are a dominant male, you will need to know what alpha characteristics to look for. Throughout this article we will provide you with information on the personality of a dominant male. We will also provide you with some helpful tips on becoming more dominant so that you can attract the woman of your dreams!

The dominant man, sometimes referred to as the 'alpha male', is a man who knows what he wants - and gets it. Why do women love him? Women love the alpha male because he is a man of power. He loves to take control and he knows how to do it.

The trait that most women love about the dominant male is his confidence. The dominant male knows who he is - and owns it. He is the man who is comfortable enough with himself that he is not constantly worried about what others think of him. Because he doesn't care what others think, he is confident in any situation, and is never afraid to give his opinion. This often puts the dominant male in positions of authority, making him very successful in his career - a trait that is definitely very attractive to women!

If you are trying to pick a dominant male out in the crowd, look for the male who is the center of attention. He loves to meet new people and is comfortable talking to strangers. The alpha male is the one who will approach you rather than waiting for you to approach him. If, however, you want to attract an alpha male, you will want to give him a challenge. Dominant men love to be challenged, both in business and personal life. So, even if you are interested, play it off. It will definitely work to your advantage!

So, why are women so attracted to dominant men? Aside from their hugely successful careers and confident attitudes, women love dominant men because they are unlike themselves. Society teaches women that they are to be submissive and non-aggressive. While some women do display dominant traits, most do fall in the 'submissive' category. And because opposites attract, they want a male who can take control and be in power when they cannot.

If you are a male and want to come off more dominant to attract women, raise that head of yours and stay confident. Women love a confident man who is not afraid to stand up for her when she needs it. Also, be the leader. Pick out the dates and pay for the cheque. Women love to know that their man can take care of them - even if they don't need to be taken care of.

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Saving Felicity by Darlene Franklin

When family problems and financial woes threaten Felicity's historic bed-and-breakfast, she calls in reality show B & B or Bust. To save her business she'll do whatever it takes, even if it means clashing with the opinionated TV host who thinks he knows best.

Travis Cobb arrives at the Bailey Mansion B & B expecting another hopeless cause to dramatize on his show. But he finds that Felicity's as sweet as her tea shop's muffins, and he's determined to help. Can the unlikely pair save the struggling businessand find their own happily-ever-after?

0814-9780373743025-bigw.jpgA Groom Worth Waiting For by Sophie Pembroke

It's everything Thea has ever dreamed of. A Tuscan wedding, the perfect dress, a handsome groomand her wedding will unite two families in more than business. So why is it only when her groom's brother Zeke Ashton arrives that things start feeling right?

Watching the woman he once loved sacrifice her happiness for duty is impossible. Zeke has to remind her of the carefree, happy girl she once was before she says "I do" if Thea--or he--is ever to have a chance at happiness.

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Steamy weekends in Vegas are nothing new for Hollywood leading man Chase Reynolds. And with his longtime friend and collaborator, Brianna McDermott, down in the dumps over her ex, Chase will do anything--even seduce her himself to remind her how desirable she is! Their TV show is on the line and he needs her to commit. But when they get to Vegas, suddenly he's the one thinking about commitment. Because all along, Brianna had an ace up her sleeve in this seduction showdown.

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