What women want, they get more often than not; the only question is from whom or with whom will they get it...

I hope you're having a great day! The following reader comment blew me away when it first came in, and these many months later, it still does. Of all the letters I ever expected to get from readers, this one would have never been on the list. Meet Dawn:

Dear David,

I have been putting off writing you because I did not want to sound crazy. My boyfriend David and I bought your book so that we could see if we should really get married or not. He wanted to get married before now, but I kept putting him off because I felt there was something missing in our relationship. The thing is that I started finding his roommate attractive. I ended up spending the night with Eric (his roommate) while he was out of town. That night I found out that Eric had been reading your book the whole time and my David had not. I just wanted to say thanks, because Eric and I will be getting married in a few weeks and David is last week's trash.

I hope your book helps everyone as much as it helped me find the man I always dreamed of calling my husband.

Sincerely,

Dawn T.

I didn't originally write "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" to help anyone FIND a mate (although enough has been added to it that it will certainly do that quite well now), and to tell you the truth, I wrote it for GUYS (with a few BIG HINTS for women included). BUT, I've found through e-mails from readers that a lot of my sales have been to single women who are apparently smarter than us guys because they are reading material for guys to see what to prepare themselves for and ultimately seek out. I originally expected sales to women to be for their men, not for themselves. Women are taking initiative and going for it! After all, a huge part of their life is managing relationships; they are born wired to do it, and we could learn quite a bit from them about relationships if we'd take the time to do so -- I sure did!

However, Gentlemen, there are a couple of huge lessons here for all of us to learn, aside from the fact that what's in this book works. Women pay attention to what's going on around them, and they are extremely sensitive to not only behavior, but CHANGES in behavior. That's why I recommend in the first part of my book that if a man evaluates his relationship and finds out that it is one that should be kept and improved that he have the woman in his life read it as well.

This is to help her understand that she and your marriage are to be the beneficiaries (along with yourself, of course!) of the changes she's about to see, not a new girlfriend. A new girlfriend would often be a woman's first thought when she sees positive change in a man, and unfortunately, most of the time she'd be right. Let's face it Gentlemen, one of the things that get men caught having an affair is its effect as a confidence booster, which does change his behavior toward most, if not all, the people around him.

Another lesson is that women recognize when you're committed by the effort you make, and if you're caught slacking, you will be punished for it on some level, usually by having them withhold some part of themselves from you, whether it be time, consideration, support, favor, intimacy, sex, or whatever, and even by giving that part of themselves they withhold from you to another man. Being assertive and taking the lead in achievement, even the achievement of a better relationship, is sexy; being lazy or timid is anti-sexy. Take the hint, and get on the ball.

Make a hobby and a habit of taking responsibility for your life and doing constructive things to improve yourself and your environment (the space and circumstances around you - I'm not talking "green" here), and encourage others to do the same thing, a strong sign of leadership that no woman can resist. There is no person or group that can save the world, but if we all start taking better care of ourselves and the part of the world we live and work in, there won't be much room left for problems. We're proving that at our forum, http://forum.makingherhappy.com, as member after member figures out what's wrong or missing from their life and fixes it, and you'd be doing yourself a favor to join us there.

We all have a bit of a tendency to slow down and let things slide a little as we get older, and the more we let slide, the more the momentum builds, and the faster we and our situations decay, so fix everything before it becomes broken, and I'm talking about every aspect of your life - marriage, job, hobbies, physical and mental condition, EVERYTHING! There's no need to be an OVER-achiever, but be a "doer" and take care of yourself and your situation.

Start by going to http://www.makingherhappy.com and downloading your copy of my book "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage" and get your love life (and sex life) in order, and then keep right on going, with the job, friends, physique, etc., using the confidence gained by a happy home life to build your momentum. Do it now, because life's too short to do anything less than LIVE it.

In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!

David Cunningham

"Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham

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It seems that leaders posses 6 basis distinctiveness.

1. Harshness

You should first be watchful that people with charisma are predictably simple and demure. It's the people who fail unremittingly who are casual towards others. In a group, enchanting folks never try to attract attention by cheek about their talents or qualities, or by making a exclaim of their virtues.

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A few sparkle ago a popular magazine level a be against. Readers had to produce bits of weighty or spiritual intelligence, in 25 words or less. One reader submitted the biased gem: "Kith and kin WHO Conversation With reference to THEMSELVES ARE BORES, Kith and kin WHO Conversation With reference to OTHERS ARE GOSSIPS, BUT Family WHO Conversation With reference to YOU ARE Brilliant CONVERSATIONALISTS!" It's so true. If you want to territory a mesmerizing personality, you pass to learn to urge outlying people to go on hunger strike themselves, and to talk about themselves to you. Ask questions about their work, their hobbies, their families and so on. Play a role them the opportunity to re- animal protein themselves to you.

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Shyness, which we'll talk about in stage in the stage devoted to it, is not inevitably a disparaging quality if it isn't extravagant, in which slice it's best quality like a correctly expose of courtesy and swap.

Excluding if your shyness prevents you from communicating with others, from assuming your stanch position in society, from meeting people with whom you convey you pass whatever thing in do, from doing well on oral exams or show your best side arrived job inter- views, then you should do whatever thing about it. Kith and kin with charisma are not moreover shy, and if they were at one time, they pass succeeded in overcoming it. We'll see how with on.

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This means not procrastinating - not putting off for tomorrow what you can do today. Charming people are neither sagging nor slow-moving. If procrastinating is one of your faults, you ought to utterly get rid of it. An entire stage of this book is devoted to the problem.

Be honest: do you love people who can't make up their minds, who still association to be dragging their feet, and who pass a put in the bank of items they were reputed to do last week which they still haven't gotten round about to? No, of instruct not.

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Okay, so I came home from my 1st yr of college this summer to work @ my mom's pediatric clinic front desk to help her out/ make some much needed cash.

Less than a week ago, this cute mom comes in w/ her baby in hand, I guess to have him seen by my mom. The first thing I notice about her is that she's got really beautiful sky blue eyes, and I'm a sucker for eyes ;]

So while she's waiting to be seen, she's kinda standing by the front desk area carrying the kid, when she mentions that she's thirsty. I offer to get her some water from the back fountain and she smiles @ me and says something like, ';thanks sweetie.'; I thought she was just being nice at the time, but keep reading ;]

So after we're walking from the back she's still carrying her baby, who has her mom's car keys in hand and is playing with them, so I say, ';Wow, ur kid really likes those keys'; with a grin.

She laughs a bit and says,'; Oh yeah, you should see it when I try to get them away from her to drive!';

So then she gets called into one of the patient rooms by my mom and gets the baby checked out. At that point I get back to work, and a little bit later @ one point, I walked over to the desk of one of the cooler nurses who work there, Angie, who's kinda chuckling to herself. ';What's so funny?'; I asked.

';Oh, nothing,'; she replied. Weird, I thought, but I thought nothing of it after that.

So it gets time for the mom from earlier to leave, but not before striking up a mini convo about how I like the college I'm @ and how I enjoy the freedom college brings, blah blah blah...

So she leaves at about closing time and it's just us workers in the office, when Angie bursts in to the front desk scene laughing like a retard. I'm like, ';What is so damn funny?';

So she finally comes out with it, telling me that she was the nurse who checked out that mom's kid. The mom apparently asks Angie ';So who is that handsome man out there?'; Angie is thinkin, ';what handsome man?';, cuz to her I'm just the bosses kid I guess :P.

So she realizes that the MILF she's talking about me and tells her that I'm the doctor's son from college. The woman replies with, ';God, he's such a doll! I'm glad I didn't bring my husband in here because I haven't been able to take my eyes off of him since I got here!';

So after she tells me and everyone else in the office, we all have a laugh and I get teased a bit, but in the back of my mind I'm thinking ';Damn, I would NOT mind hooking up w/ this MILF @ all, husband or not ;]';

She's super old or anything, I'm 20 and she's late 20's so it could def. happen... SUGGESTIONS?What to do if a married woman flirts with and is crushing on you?

She is a married woman. You still have to keep this thought in your mind.

Ask yourself if you really have the guts to have a desire to break up a happy home.

This is a charming story, but the truth still remains that she is a married woman.

You have to put yourself in her husband's shoes.

If you was a married man, and had a baby by your wife, and you was out there working or what not, and you trusted her to take the baby to the doctor to get checked, how will you feel if your wife was out there flirting with someone else?

Exactly.

And another point, I will like to point out to you, is that if this lady is a married lady, and she is flirting without her husband knowing, then whats makes you think she won't do the same thing to you if the two of you was to get together.

While reading this story, the first thought that popped to my mind was that, this lady must be trying to have a revenge on her husband for something he must have done. Like maybe he has been talking to other girls or have cheated.

But until you mentioned that she made a statement saying that she's so happy her husband wasn't around, my mind was changed from that thought.

Because, that couldn't be the case if she was worried about her husband being there or not.

You should be a smart guy. You're in college. Make the right choice here. Think about the outcomes of this situation if you was or wasn't to get with her.

I hope I helped you some.What to do if a married woman flirts with and is crushing on you?

Tooooooo dangerous. you mum would go off if you start shagging her patients. it would end up messy. if you see her again and she shows interest in you, tell her to come back when she has the divorce papers. you will only get hurt.

Be careful.... Nothing all that good can happen from this... One of you will take it to far.. and then feelings get involved then there is drama.

If she and you want to keep it purely (For Pleasure) then it might stand a chance, but you can not compete with her stability with her family.

And you really shouldn't want to.

Well not all of you anyway....

It is fun to dream though.

GOOD LUCK

.....................................

that's a good story. I don't think you should get involved with a married women. It'll just cook up drama in the future.

Tell her she's a skank....and think about this... if she's doing this to her man......what makes you think she wont do this to all of them? think about it!

WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU THINKING? the woman is married! so what if she has a crush on you? that doesn't give you the right to go and ruin a marriage!

you are completely unbelievable to even be considering this!

i hope she sees what a jerk you really are.

lol yeah you can do it while the kids watching ^^ I'm just kidding i doubt she would do anything with you, but that sounded like a funny experience

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As a delegate in Model U.N., odds are that you love to talk. Whether you're making your well-practiced opening speech, collaborating with other delegates in an unmoderated caucus, presenting a resolution, or even chairing, the ability to communicate is the greatest skill of a delegate in Model U.N. Communicating, however, is not simply limited to speech and verbal communication. Researchers have claimed that over 60% of communication in humans is nonverbal. As we engage in conversations or make a speech, our eyes, face, arms, legs, hands, and the rest of our body are sending signals that are read by the subconscious of our viewers, indicating whether we're being honest or lying, aggressive or passive, interested or disengaged. By recognizing body language in others, while also making efforts to control our own, we can read more into what others are saying while making sure that we're effectively communicating in committee. It should be noted that these signals should not be taken to absolutely say that somebody is defensive, dishonest, or disengaged, but rather give us an idea of how they might feel if these signals are congruent with other signs and the context of the conversation. For example, if you tell Syria that as China you're going to veto an intervention into their country and they cross their arms, this doesn't mean they don't like that idea. But if you're representing the United States and tell Syria that you're going to sanction them, and they cross their arms, odds are that they're suddenly feeling defensive. In this article we'll start by looking at the hands, which are the most obvious and generally most easily controlled signals we send while communicating, and later we'll look deeper into the world of non-verbal communication. HAND POSITIONS: There are more connections from your brain to your hands than to any other part of the body, so our hands are one of the most important things to consider in communication. Whether making a speech or speaking to a small group, you should always pay attention to the position of your hands and fingers to be sure that you're sending the right message. 1. THE PALM UP Barack Obama speaking at Nelson Mandela's memorial service Early in human history, people showed their open palms to show that they weren't armed and meant no harm to the other people present. Today, we see that when somebody wishes to proclaim their innocence, show their sincerity, or build trust with a group, they will show their palms in a Palm Up or Palm Down position to build confidence. Oaths of office or before taking the stand in court often include the subject holding up their hand with their palm clearly shown. When making speeches or working with your caucus bloc, you can build trust from your colleagues by showing your palms up or out when explaining why your paper is the best, why your country feels the way it does, or why they should be working with you and vote yes on your paper. Hiding your palms during speeches or conversations will have the opposite effect, with delegate thinking you may be hiding something or being dishonest about your intentions. By palm-showing you appear sincere, open, inviting, honest, and non-threatening, which can at times (but not always) be a helpful way to complement your speech or idea in debate. 2. THE PALM DOWN Silvio Berlusconi uses the Palm Down gesture frequently in his speeches. In contrast to the non-threatening and inviting feeling imparted by the Palm Up gesture, the Palm Down gesture will project authority over those around you. Often when people are trying to command or order somebody to do something, their palms will be facing down. While incredibly confident and at ease, this gesture can often make others feel uncomfortable. Think of a parent patting a child on the head; this is clearly a relationship where the parent has authority over the child, and thus is an acceptable hand position. When this hand position is used when speaking to an audience of your peers, however, this can make others feel antagonistic and upset by what you're saying. Be extremely cautious when using the Palm Down gesture, because though it projects confidence and authority, it can also project aggression and dominance (see: Adolph Hitler), which is not a very good way to make friends in committee. 3. THE FINGER POINT Vladmir Putin is shown above making a speech kicking USAID out of Russia, clearly using the finger-point. In many countries, it is considered incredibly rude to point at somebody with your index finger. Though not necessarily against cultural norms in all countries, it's best to avoid this gesture altogether, as speakers who commonly use finger-pointing gestures are seen as aggressive, belligerent, and rude. Especially in Model U.N. speeches, where your comments are directed at the chair, pointing at an individual delegate or group of individuals is an incredibly bad idea. In a study including 8 different speakers using the Palm Up, Palm Down, and Finger Point gestures on separate audiences while making the exact same speeches, the results spoke for themselves. 84% of participants gave positive testimonials for Palm Up speeches, 52% gave positive testimonials for Palm Down speeches, and only 28% gave positive responses for finger-pointing speeches. Long story short: don't finger point in MUN. 4. THE FINGERTIP TOUCH Kofi Annan using you the fingertip-touch While finger pointing is always bad, sometimes performing a "fingertip touch" is advisable when making speeches or advocating for a specific plan. By touching your fingers to your thumb, you can tap out the rhythm of specific points (like the different letters of your super-clever acronym!), and come across as assertive rather than aggressive. This gesture conveys less passion in your speech than other gestures, instead substituting passion for appearing thoughtful and controlled. Fingertip touch speeches often come across as pointed, concise, intelligent, and goal-oriented, so while you may not use this hand position as often during your unmods, it's advisable to use it if you want to seem like the logical thinker to the assembly as a whole. A NOTE ON SHAKING HANDS: Hilary Clinton gets the upper hand on Hugo Chavez, much to the amusement of Presidents Santos and Pi~nera. Though not a common facet of all cultures, shaking hands is still the most common formal greeting globally, so it's imperative that all Model UN delegates have a good handshake. Obviously it is always a good idea to have a firm handshake so that you don't give somebody a limp handed "wet fish" handshake. Try practicing with friends to make sure that your handshake is strong, but not too strong, as this can have a serious effect on first impressions when meeting you chair or other delegates in committee, indicating either that you're a power player or content with sitting in the back of the room without speaking. In shaking hands, we also see another example of our palm-position power dynamics that many of us have probably experienced without even paying attention. Many dominant personalities will have dominant handshakes, and passive personalities have passive handshakes, so when shaking hands with somebody new, pay attention to whether they try to turn their hand to a Palm Down position, or if they instinctively turn to a Palm Up position. You should always aim to be respectful of your other delegates and seek for an equally balanced shake, but if another delegate tries to "gain the upper hand" on you, feel free to shake with both hands or hold their upper arm or shoulder to set the dynamic back to equal. Throughout George W. Bush and Tony Blair's Bromance they also had an underlying handshake-dominance rivalry, as shown here. Though not all-encompassing, at your next conference try to use these tips both to control your message, and interpret the messages subliminally being sent by your fellow delegates. Paying attention to more than just your words is a requisite skill for today's world leaders, and as we try to emulate them we must also take these considerations into account. Leverage these ideas to make yourself a stronger delegate, because in trying to bring home the awards or just be a better communicator overall, these tips could really come in..... handy. "*Much of my experience with Body Language (and most of the statistics included in this article) came from initially reading "THE DEFINITIVE BOOK OF BODY LANGUAGE", by Allan and Barbara Pease. I highly recommend this book to anybody wanting to look deeper into the study of body language*"

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Me to We is an innovative social enterprise that provides people with better choices for a better world. Through socially conscious and environmentally friendly products and life-changing experiences, Me to We measures the bottom line, not by dollars earned, but by the number of lives we change and the positive social and environmental impact we make. In addition, half of Me to We's net profit is donated to Free The Children, our best friend and charity partner who was recently named a Top Employer for Young People and the other half is reinvested to grow Me to We.

The Me to We Coordination Team is seeking a dynamic, hard working, driven individual with strong organizational and customer service skills to join our department as an INTERNATIONAL TRIP COORDINATOR. This individual will help to empower youth through overseeing the coordination, planning, logistics, and execution of Me to We's International Trips. This individual will manage a portfolio of schools travelling on international volunteer trips that will require them to build relationships with educators, headmasters, youth and parents through in-person meetings, phone conversations, email correspondence and presentations.

The success of the Me to We Coordination Team is measured by the quality of customer service, safety and efficiency of each program. The Me to We Coordination Team seeks a strong leader who will continually strengthen these objectives and strive for constant improvement of these life-changing experiences for Me to We participants.

A minimum two-year commitment is required and there are two streams of compensation for our entry level coordinator roles:

. Housing option (available only in Vancouver and Toronto)

. Non-housing option

The HOUSING OPTION compensation offers a base salary

. Year 1: 20,000 plus shared accommodation included

. Year 2: 22,000 plus shared accommodation included

The NON-HOUSING option compensation offers a base salary

. Year 1: 27, 500

. Year 2: 29, 500

There is a six (6) month probationary period, upon reaching the three (3) month period, all staff members are offered a health plan including dental and Employee Assistant Program. The position is based out of Me to We's office in Toronto (225 Carlton Street). This role is perfect for a new graduate who is looking to grow and work hard for two years. You love big goals and surpassing expectations.

While resumes are important, we want to know what makes you a great fit for our team and culture. We will consider resumes on a rolling basis and would like the right person to join us as soon as possible.

RESPONSIBILITIES:

PRODUCTION: PROPORTION OF TIME SPENT 45%

* Register participants with the Canadian/US Embassy, collect all medical, health insurance and dietary information prior to the trip departure

* Create content for packages and resource materials for all countries to which Me to We travels

* Assist in the preparation of our Me to We Facilitators pre-trip be ensuring the accuracy of the contents of their trip documents, hosting a thorough pre-trip briefing, and providing Facilitators will all resources and information to ensure the success and safety of the trip

* Assist in the preparation of our Country Offices through the accurate recording of all trip and participant specific medical, travel and logistics related information

* Ensure the timely payment of all trip experiences through the collection, processing and financial management of each client's account

* Manage fundraising projects (e.g. Personal fundraising pages, Artisans Fundraising Kit)

* Manage the trip bursaries process (e.g. applications, selections, registration for trips, etc.)

* Oversee the registration of all trip participants, ensuring that their application documents are completed on time and accurately.

CUSTOMER SERVICE: PROPORTION OF TIME SPENT 50%

* Work with external stakeholders (educators, parents, students) and country teams to provide tailored programs that enhance the leadership development and volunteerism of the international experience

* Proactively reach out to all clients to ensure their trip coordination timelines are met and expectations exceeded.

* Respond to all client inquiries in a professional and timely manner

* Provide engaging and comforting pre-departure presentations to external stakeholders, confidently communicating the logistics and safety details of your client's Me to We Trip.

* Consistently seek to go above and beyond the client's expectations

* Follow up with evaluations of our programming, offer a support network for participants after the trip in consultation with the trip facilitation team, and host feedback phone or in-person conversations with educators/headmasters

REPORTING: PROPORTION OF TIME SPENT 5%

* Track all steps of the trip coordination process and record all client correspondence utilizing our client management tool - Salesforce

* Ongoing processing, tracking and reconciliation of all payments by schools and trip participants

* Providing weekly trip status and financial updates to your manager

GENERAL RESPONSIBILITIES

* Work alongside fellow Me to We Trip Coordinators, Domestic Programs Coordinator and Administrative Coordinators to ensure the accuracy and quality of the client's experience

* Report to and consult with the Manager of Coordination

* Answer questions about Me to We's School & Youth experiences from interested youth, parents and educators/headmasters

* Provide support with additional programs within the Coordination Team. In particular assisting with the coordination, planning, logistics, and execution of Me to We Take Action Camps and Customized Leadership Trainings

SKILLS AND QUALIFICATIONS:

* Strong organizational and administrative skills

* Keen interest in logistics and coordination

* Excellent attention to detail

* Demonstrated leadership skills through academic, professional or personal life

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* Positive attitude and ability to work as a team player and work well independently

* Ability to multi-task in a demanding and fast-paced work environment

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Me to We sincerely thanks all those who apply, however only those considered for an interview will be contacted.

Yuri, who is known for her workout regimen, including her habit of doing 600 sit-ups every day, once again had her physical training featured, this time on KBS2's "Star Life Theater" on November 24th. A member of the gym Girls Fitness, Yuri was shown going there after hours due to her schedule. She commented that during Girls' Generation's Japan Arena Tour over the summer, breathing inside the hot venues was difficult, but she was able to handle it because of her training.

The episode on the 24th also showed scenes of the girls participating in a fansigning event.

The girls have also attracted attention with their full gluttony despite their perfect figures.

In the episode broadcast on November 23rd, the girls revealed their easygoing daily lives outside the TV screen.

On this day, the girls cheered at the sight of food bought by one of the staff while preparing for a music program in the green room. They replenished their energies by eating enthusiastically, and showed a vigorous desire for food.

The members said, "There's always a buffet in Girls' Generation's green room. The manager oppas work really hard." At this, the VJ asked if they go on diets. The girls replied, "No we don't. If we think that we gained weight, we just control what we eat, but we need to eat to work." With this, they showed a free and easy attitude.

On the other hand, Tiffany attracted attention by practicing very hard for her first musical. She received many favorable comments from viewers after this episode revealed her practicing for her upcoming musical for 12 hours a day, in addition to working earnestly as a singer.

Tiffany also spoke of her drifting relationship with her father, as she tearfully shared some of the difficulties she has had.

Through the show, she admitted that she has become distant with her father ever since she went to Korea to be a singer. Tiffany said, "I was sixteen years old eight years ago when I first came to Korea. I was at the peak of my wandering adolescent age, and it was two years after my mother passed away."

Tiffany mentioned how she came to choose this career path. "During that adolescent period of my life, music was the only thing that made me happy." However, her father was opposed to Tiffany becoming a singer. On this, Tiffany said, "In honesty, my relationship with my father drifted a lot while I've been working as a singer. It's been a long time since we've talked, and now that I think about it, I have never spent much time with him at all," and spilled the tears she was trying to fight back.

Tiffany kept wiping her tears as she said, "It's been almost eight years since I came here and...it's upsetting."

Also on the 23rd, Hyoyeon showed her professionalism and her maturity. Hyoyeon was recently chosen as a fixed cast member on KBS2's "Invincible Youth 2' along with Sunny. Perhaps because of the nerves that came with filming the second episode "(Editor's Note: the article says first episode)", she was having such a rough time that she even skipped lunch. However, she said in front of the production crew, "I don't think it's indigestion," and put on a bit of a smile.

Before going back to filming, Boom cheered her up by saying, "Don't be sick," and also encouraged her. He said, "Hyoyeon has something strong in her heart. I respect and admire that about her. I'm just expressing as a fan my respect for her when I see her overcome difficulties while being active in Girls' Generation and constantly improving herself in every album."

The cast then went to the mud flats where Hyoyeon tried her best and did not hold herself back even though she was not feeling well, showing how passionate she is.

When Hyoyeon was interviewed, she expressed her intentions and once again showed her professionalism when she replied, "How can you always be clean when you work? When I'm on stage like for Music Bank, I strive for perfection because I have to show the best I can be as a singer. But right now, I'm here to work so all I can do is think positively and put in my best effort."

Sources: Etoday.co.kr, Daum, Daum, Wstarnews.hankyung.com

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Most Coaches, Consultants, Therapists and People Helpers report that the hardest thing they find is getting their client to actually 'take action' after the session. If you've ever wanted to know how Top Coaches and Masters of Change make this happen with ease read on

HAVE you ever worked with a client and thought that everything was going well, they've agreed with what you're saying, they've even made an action plan and said they're going to 'get right on it'

But -

- at the next session..".OUT COME THE EXCUSES" as to why they haven't gotten any further?

You know the amount of effort you put in to your session, your desire to help, your passion to see people succeed and the personal feelings of the reward you get when someone DOES take action and you SEE and HEAR the change.But when it doesn't happenand it's a long line of platitudes and excuseshow do you feel?

DEFLATED?

FRUSTRATED?

ANNOYED?

LETS BE BLUNT ABOUT IT -

Are you tired of your clients coming back with the same old excuses for not doing the work?

Are you fed up with having to repeat yourself again and again week after week?

Are you frustrated by the amount of time you waste?

"And..".

Fed-up with questioning your "own" skillseven though you know that what you do works.

YOUR PASSIONATE AND SKILFULand yet they just slip through the net right?

Wrong!

LISTEN CAREFULLY-

This isn't your fault (seriously it's not

And it's not their fault either.

In fact -

IT'S THE FAULT OF THE MECHANISMS FOR CHANGE

Let me repeat this because THIS is important!

IT'S THE FAULT OF THE MECHANISMS FOR CHANGE

they're 'just not connected in the right place'.

But it doesn't have to be this way Not at all

I'M GOING TO GIVE YOU THE EASIEST WAY TO STOP THIS FROM HAPPENING.

When I first I started coaching, I had all these skills to use, these incredible tools and I was good at using all of the techniques. Many of my clients had amazing change too, but there were just some clients that no matter how hard I tried, no matter how many different techniques I would use - they just wouldn't commit to the work or get the change that I KNEW should of happened and could"e happened. But not any more.

"Oh, and you know who gets the blame don't you!"

In fact - I later learnt that coaching is really simple. There's a formula. In fact - one thing I learnt is this

### IT'S NOT ABOUT THE TECHNIQUES ###

In truth - It's a bit like a great book or film - it has 'The Beginning - The Middle and The End'

You see coaching shouldn't be an ad-hoc process. There is a structure to it that works.

In fact - it's this same structure that if you know how to apply it will get you consistent results that will elevate you to be the COACH in DEMAND - where YOU will be the TOP COACH.

You could have the skills and tools to know 'how the worlds top coaches' actually manage to get their clients to "ACT" and make changes as well as the amazing feelings they get when they know that a great session has not only just happened but is also going continue long after the session.

Sounds great doesn't it?That's because it's true and you too could get to feel like this every time you coach someone and never have to worry about whether after the session, they're actually going to take action or not.

THE NEXT STEP

You see just on Sunday the 30th January I'm holding a VERY SPECIAL 1 Day 'Training' Session that is normally reserved just for my Closed-Group NLP Practitioner's and Master Practitioners but -

- I felt that this was too important to be kept as just a Closed-Group session so I'm opening it up just for a few days to you.

THIS Advanced Mastery course is going to teach you the secrets of coaching with NLP - not only will you learn how to select the right techniques, but also how to have the 'right' state for coaching and to know what to pay attention to when you're working with a client; as well as knowing which 'bits' to go for and which to steer well clear from!

To do this you just need the right STRATEGIES, which I will give you on this course.

THESE POWERFUL STRATEGIES are the strategies and skills that Top Coaches and Change Agents use to create incredible interventions for their clients. You see Coaching isn't just about selecting a whole bunch of techniques or being nice to your client, but about how to shift and manoeuvre them to the right learning 'state'.

HOWEVER: - One of the KEY skills isn't what you think - it isn't about having an armoury of tools and skills, but about a 'particular' state that YOU need to have as well as paying attention to one SPECIFIC thing

On this ADVANCED MASTERY COURSE, you'll learn the 'THE TOP SECRETS OF THE TOP COACHES'

* Be challenged and learn how to find the right techniques WITHOUT GUESSING or hoping - (While there are 'maps' to help you - knowing from 'instinct' what will work and what won't - does make a difference. You'll learn how to refine that instinct so that you get better all the time)
* DISCOVER THE 'STRATEGY' QUESTIONS and how to track forward and backwards through time to discover the right place to tap - (there are good questions and there are amazing questions! these "are" amazing)
* Find out how to to discover the 'exact' problem physiology and to know when you've got it. (When you have the evidence for this and always know what it is 'VAK' you'll never be at a loss to wonder if you've REALLY gotten to where the problem is)
* NEVER GET STUCK WONDERING WHAT TO DO NEXT - here you'll learn to always have a next step strategy
* Learn a simple 5 STEP BLUEPRINT ACTION plan for any coaching session. (follow this and it'll make all your coaching sessions a breeze)
* AND THE BEST - Test all you've learnt be put on the spot and get coached yourself (You'll be put on the spot and given the best skill ANYONE CAN HAVETHIS WILL 'MASSIVELY' sky-rocket your performance)

This Course is as much centred around how to create states of high performance states that accelerate your ability to comprehend and take action using advanced skills in state development.

Also you'll understand how it is that people create their own 'presentation of limitations' and how to recognise this... you see not only is this useful to recognise it in others and have a 'map' for it, but (in my opinion) more useful to know when we ourselves enter into our limitations... John Grinder would define this as 'stalking the self'. This alone is probably one of the key tools for self-change and personal advancement.

And not only all of this, but you'll learn how to structure sessions with other people. Even though it's in the context of coaching, understanding how to 'look at structuring and organising sequences of events from the top-down is a great skill for use in everyday scenarios from planning, to meetings to presentations (as well as persuading the boss!).

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Work on avoiding these negative signs, and you will soon notice a positive change in the way people treat and regard you in both work and social situations. It will also help improve your dating life.

I used to show many of these beta male signs below and after reading John Alexander's How To Become An Alpha Male, I soon realised the mistakes I was making that were not only effecting my chances with women, but my social life too. If you naturally posses these beta male signs like I did it can be difficult to get rid of them. However I worked hard at changing my mindset and eventually I naturally began to exhibit the signs of an Alpha Male. If you feel that you may be guilty of showing any of these beta male signs, then make sure you avoid them. With time you will soon reap the rewards of a better social, dating life and overall improved lifestyle.

YOU BULLY PEOPLE

Let's face it, nobody likes a bully. A bully will pick on people he considers weaker than him and knows will never fight back. This is usually due to the bully's own insecurities. By making people feel worse makes him feel better in some way.

An Alpha Male doesn't bully people and will only fight if its necessary. He doesn't fight unless he really needs to and will not be afraid to take on someone who is bigger/stronger than him if the situation is serious enough. And due to his positive attitude he will win.

YOU LIE

Serious lies can cause a lot more harm than good. Whether you lie to your boss, your mates or your girlfriend, lies are deceitful and you always get found out.

An Alpha Male knows this so doesn't lie. He is honest and only shoots straight. He always does what's right and doesn't have to worm his way out of a mess he got himself into. As the saying goes, '"Whatever will be, will be!"'

YOU DONT THINK BEFORE YOU ACT

Not thinking before you act can get you into a few tricky situations. Although an Alpha Male is quick to react, he always thinks first before doing so. He has his shit together and doesn't run off into all corners like a beta male does.

YOU GOSSIP

Whether it's gossiping about your mates, your girlfriend or your work colleagues, a beta male doesn't mind pointing out and laughing at other people's failings and flaws. An Alpha Male never gossips about and betrays people that are close to him. He doesn't have to make himself feel better by tearing others down.

YOU NEVER APOLOGIES

A beta male will never admit he was wrong and always believes he is in the right. If an Alpha Male does something wrong he will admit it and apologies. If what he has done as caused a problem he will find a solution.

YOU GET JEALOUS

Whether it's someone successful or a friend who is dating a hot girl, jealousy shows your own weaknesses and insecurities. An Alpha Male is comfortable in his own skin and doesn't get jealous.

YOU STAB OTHERS IN THE BACK TO GET AHEAD IN LIFE

Being a back stabber is an act of betrayal. An Alpha Male never betrays anyone and will be a success in life on his own merits.

YOU BLAME OTHERS FOR YOUR OWN ACTIONS

A beta male will blame others for something he has done. An Alpha Male will take responsibility for his own actions and will find a solution to fix the problem.

YOU PANIC WHEN SOMETHING GOES WRONG

When a problem arises a beta male will go into panic mode and not analyse the situation properly. He may even run away and pretend it never happened. An Alpha Male will never bury his head in the sand. He is used to change and will view the problem as a challenge. He will think and then act to deal with the situation.

YOU SEEK APPROVAL FROM OTHERS

A beta male is the lowest in the social pecking order and will look for guidance and follow people. He will agree with others, even if he thinks they are wrong, just to please them. An Alpha Male doesn't seek approval from anyone. He has his own mind and is the leader!

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):Susan Dunn - The Top 10 Clues Youre Dating A Married Man

Kate Ludeman - Coaching The Alpha Male

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Up to standard, so acquaint with are countless deviating ways to begin this blog. I may well talk about relationships that work or that don't work, relationships that are just beginning or relationships that assume stood the test of time, or reading relationships that are happy and full of delight or relationships that are discordant and full of aggravation. Miraculously, I'm not departure to do any of that. No sir. More willingly of starting this blog by throwing a ration of research consequence and advice about relationships in your face (don't worry, that will stem without delay enough), I've sincere to allot my first chore to a relationship that I've honored my undamaged life: my parents.

I'll begin with some history. My mom and dad were apiece born and raised in Washington, D.C. They apiece lived and hung out as teenagers on MacArthur Blvd, and throughout out my undamaged life, forever talked about people they knew "from the public walk." My dad, an automotive bodyman and car stimulate, and my mom, a bushy, beautiful, high sequence pupil, fell in love in the early 1970s and were married in Ancient Extremely, MD in 1976. A couple of years innovative, they bought their first home in Adelphi, MD where they raised their two daughters, me and my sister Meghan.

Embryonic up, I forever knew that my parents were soul mates. From the way my mom would watch her energetic husband tell a story, to my dad's desire to forever tell his other half that he loved her, to the way that they bickered in the car about who "more or less" made them late, I forever knew that they were aimed to be together. So, what was their secret? They were best friends who took the time to laugh at. That's it.

That was their secret (well, let's be vital, they each had countless relationship skills that they complete and utilized for over 30 years, but this skill was absolutely wave to me). Whether my parents were arguing about their thrift, division their warm feelings and belief, or just talking about their day, they were forever talking, and higher importantly, forever pleased. Smiling was very primitive in our motherland.

My dad, a hilarious story-teller who laughed at his own jokes, and my mom, an amazing listener who has been standard to laugh at until she cries, spent hours seemingly enjoying each other's company. They may well laugh at about no matter what. As my dad was the staple joke-teller, my mom would entice my dad about all of his gentle quirks, which as well as tended to be very expensive. They laughed once they were celebrating, they laughed at the end of an fall out, and they reading laughed once my dad became deadly ill. In the manner of my mother knew that his life was departure to end, he and my mom sincere to rough copy his eulogy, together. Enduring in the field of his critical natural life on haunt, my dad managed to make his eulogy more or less funny. To as well remembrance him, and all that he stood for, my mom invited friends and family to capacity funny stories they had about my dad at his remembrance service in 2006. So, reading in his quick-thinking, my mom was pleased. Smiling got them throughout countless tiring times in their lives. It helped them grow quicker as a couple, it gave them an confession to be scatty, and it showed them what was in a minute primitive in life.

When assume I astute from my parents' relationship? I've astute that life is too dumpy for it to be vital all of the time, that I duty forever pinch time out of traditional to laugh at with the people I love, and that you can never tell a person that you love them too afar. So, mom, dad, thank you for inspection me how two people can be happy for over 30 years just enjoying each other's company.

For higher information about the stuff of glee on relationship implementation, see the political research articles:

* Bazzini, D. G., Mountain, E. R., Martincin, P. D., ">Motivation and Attachment, 31, 25- 34.
* Lauer, R. Lauer, J., ">International Go through of Aging and At all Encroachment, 30, 189- 195.
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