Regret Part 1 Mistake Made Lesson Learnt
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Acquaintance FROM MISTAKESSpace Completed AND Flair LEARNTByVIKRAM KARVE
In NLP (NEURO LINGUISTIC PROGRAMMING) award is a presupposition:
Offer IS NO Failure, Specific Rejoinder.
As Well, I Believe:
Offer ARE NO MISTAKES, Specific Acquaintance EXPERIENCES.
Positive of best lessons we ever learn, we learn from our mistakes and failures.
THE Failure OF THE Beforehand IS THE Truth OF THE Progressive.
Let me tell you about a "MIX-UP" I made long back, and the lessons I learnt from it.
This happened bigger than 20 being ago being we lived in the beautiful untrained academe of the one-time IAT (NOW CALLED DIAT DEEMED LITERARY PUNE) in the hills of Girinagar overlooking the unruffled freezing down in the dumps waters of Khadakwasla Puddle give or take a few Pune, with the eloquent Sinhagad Stronghold immense terminated as a protector.
We lived in a typical MES domicile - place plus one storey with garages in between, four houses in a obstruct.
All location had a unconnected overhead wash reservoir on top of the building and unconnected servant detached house once the obstruct.
We lived on the place overlay, and our neighbours who lived on the top overlay terminated us were a young couple with a small kid.
What time award was fine hair weekend - four being off - two being Diwali holidays followed by Saturday and Sunday.
Our neighbours, who lived terminated us, considerable to consume the long weekend in Mumbai with their lineage.
In match up to, a spread-out number of lineage had considerable to hangout us to partaker Diwali and consume the weekend in the graphic background on Girinagar and do some going to places of interest and trekking, climb up the Sinhagad Stronghold and picnic at the Panshet and Varasgaon Dams and outing on the "SAND" on the Khadakvasla lakeside.
The echo disk of lineage voguish early in the morning on the first day of Diwali.
We were enjoying ourselves, the family satiated wild, and my companion got down to making planning for a parade feast for all of us and we were looking surpass to a lovely plentiful wolf.
Quickly, my companion came out and told me that the taps had run dry and she held that wash was not coming someplace in the location.
This was unanticipated, when award was an picking of wash in Girinagar and we had never faced any wash problem.
I rang up the squirt location who certain that they had legally pumped wash for three hours in the morning as per sum and award was no construe for a wash severity. They not compulsory that I like a look at my wash reservoir on the top and if award was any plumbing or piping problem they would announce any person to rectify the deformity.
I climbed up on the top and was aghast to see that my wash reservoir was clean dry. The lid had been hard-working off and the parapet of the wash reservoir had been lately tinted.
My neighbour's wash reservoir was full of wash.
I came down and started investigating the matter being my servant told me that she had seen our neighbour's servant on the top early in the morning.
I called the neighbour's servant.
He held that before untaken for Mumbai, my neighbour had firm him orders to local the express gauge, dispose of the wash reservoir, gulp down it up, dry it, and as well as stretch a wool of ornament, let it dry for two being, and as well as open the gauge so that the wash reservoir would be full by the time they came back.
He was flawed and admitted that, by mix-up, he had emptied and tinted my wash reservoir pretty of my neighbour's wash reservoir.
He had mistakenly assumed that my wash reservoir was my neighbour's wash reservoir. That is why he had careworn out all the wash, blocked the express gauge, shrunken the wash reservoir, and as well as cleaned and tinted it.
My neighbour's servant strongly apologized and held he was sour, but I was incensed - in the same way as of this man's closeness we were departure to like a wash problem being award were so plentiful set in the location.
I dejected my sulk and started racket touchily at the man, caring him a grave tongue-lashing as the man shivered in pioneer, being I abruptly noticed his small son celebration the dealings.
The young boy trembled with fear and he had an expression of awe in black and white all over his intact illustration as he watched his begin being publicly scolded and embarrassed.
I may possibly not endure to see this heart-rending expression on the young boy's illustration so I bunged my name-calling tirade, told the man to go to one side, and went into my room to freezing off.
That day I made a decision.
I organized that I would never scold character in anterior of their family or family.
Parents are heroes to their family and the supreme responsibility you can do is to dishonor parents (BEGIN OR MOTHER) in anterior of their family.
As well, it can be very demoralizing for a overseer, or any distribute, to be reprimanded by the aristocratic in anterior of his juniors and subordinates.
I was in the cobalt, a profession everywhere being "RELIGIOUS" and "SOFT EXPRESSED" did not work in all hand baggage and now and again you had to scream at people and reprimand them in order to get the darling have a row, but I ensured that whenever I gave a tongue-lashing to any person, I did so in possess, by inclination him comment separately to give him a binding down.
Alike, I tried my best to criticize the action and to catch sight of that I did not suggestion the person by making derogatory personal explanation about him.
I Painstakingly Tried My Best To Smidgen The Dictum:
"Enthusiastic response IN Public BUT Reprimand IN Single".
I did lose my sulk and noise at people in state on plentiful occasions (WHEN BY NATURE I AM A TRUE PERSON AND I COMMAND MY EMOTIONS ON MY INSULATION).
But once my blast of air, I rapid made balance out by apologizing on the abide by or at the formerly aperture.
We all make mistakes.
But the trick treachery in realizing your mix-up being you commit one, learn from your mix-up, location corrective action and make indeed you do not mantra the incredibly mix-up again.
Possess enables you to divulge a mix-up.
As Cicero Said:
ANY MAN CAN Result A Space, BUT Specific A Bemuse Preference Store IN REPEATING IT.
Mistakes are your best teachers.
Mistakes are lessons of wisdom.
And As James Joyce Said:
MISTAKES ARE THE PORTALS OF Verdict.
I like made a lot of mistakes in my life.
I like tried my best to learn from my mistakes. I clearly take aim to catch sight of that I do not mantra them again.
In some hand baggage I like succeeded, in some hand baggage it is still an ongoing switch.
As Tryon Edwards Put It:
Positive OF Best Lessons WE Customarily Learn, WE Learn FROM OUR MISTAKES AND FAILURES. THE Failure OF THE Beforehand IS THE Truth AND Successful person OF THE Progressive.
I Will End With A Quote By Wang Yang-Ming:
The sages do not manifest that making no mix-up is a ornament. They endure a bit that the great virtuousness of man treachery in his ability to alter his mistakes and to relentlessly make a new man of himself...
VIKRAM KARVECopyright (C) Vikram Karve 2012Vikram Karve has asserted his right under the Copyright, Designs and Patents Act 1988 to be acknowledged as the author of this work. (C) vikram karve., all position withdrawn.
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A new person with a interest for life, Vikram Karve is a retired Naval Controller turned full time rhymester and blogger. Educated at IIT Delhi, IIT (BHU) Varanasi, The Lawrence Tutor Lovedale and Bishops Tutor Pune, Vikram has published two books: Slurp a fix of story thick stories about relationships (2011) and Passion FOR A Meander a book of Foodie Adventures (2008) and is in half a shake enthusiastic on his new and a book of vignettes and an edition of thick story. An avid blogger, he has in black and white a number of story thick stories and new non-fiction articles on a brand of topics as well as wedge, annoy, philosophy, academics, technology, run, vigor, pet parenting, teaching stories and self help in magazines and published a large number of professional and scholarly research travel permit in journals and edited in-house journals and magazines for plentiful being, before the advent of blogging. Vikram has qualified at a Literary as a Teacher for 15 being and now teaches as a visiting force and devotes supreme of his time to new writing and blogging. Vikram Karve lives in Pune India with his family and dream - his pet dog Sherry with whom he takes long walks thinking new meditation.
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