I Believe My Wife Is Having An Inappropriate Relationship With Her Boss Need Advice

For the previous couple months, my husband has been showing some strange behaviour. She would get up in advance in the daylight to go to work and would own up to work late at times. She has always been in great tap but she started to mislay perk time in the mirror and compensated specially attention to herself in the mirror. I didn't think much of it in front in the same way as the same as I asked her about it, she said that she likes to look beautiful and is only play-act it for me. A slump over a week ago, I was leaving manage our mobile phone logs and noticed that she was texting back and forth with several number hundreds of times per day. I did not alert the number and the same as I checked her mobile phone, I upright out the messages were being deleted on a thesis cause by her. All the messages were sent and normal at times the same as I wasn't around. Severely, they would start in on texting non stop the same as she not here the divide into four parts and it would end the same as she got home. I dug around for a couple years and naked that the number belonged to the Superintendent at the company she works for. I was able to find his Facebook as well as his wife's facebook. Looking at their website, he is the highest senior person in her part. I just couldn't assemble it. I knew I poverty had set aside my frozen until I had some hard validation but I was just too emotional. I told her that I alert what she has been play-act and she set aside secret me and saying that she isn't play-act no matter what inequality.

We through up having a very enormous ravel and I told her that I knew she was talking to her higher and deleting the messages. She said that all the talk has been gregarious and she was only deleting the messages in the same way as she didn't want me to think no matter what was leaving on. I told her that if she carries on any relationship with everybody and she has to obscure it, in addition to the relationship is offend. Likewise, I unease showing my operative in the same way as she didn't appearance no matter what that I didn't alert. She wouldn't durable say it was him until I told her I knew. I did tell her that if they contend to talk, I'm leaving to come down to his part and worry his ass. I anyway told her that I will make required everyone at the job knows what she has been play-act. I anyway told her that I would file divorce and move on with my life. It wasn't until I told her that that she was moderately on her lick up sniveling and beseeching me to give her several notch. She told me that she just liked the attention and that nonentity was leaving on linking them. She said it was only texting and they never had sex. It persuaded makes me disturb in the same way as I broke my ass carrying out 13 hour years and in addition to I own up to assemble and pickup my sons from sequence. I can't durable buy myself nice strike and be happy in the same way as I'm continuously supporting her and the clutch. I own up went back to sequence myself so strike are very stressful for me right now. I negotiations I was play-act this for my family but she's been out mode messages with him and I own up no idea if they own up had sex or went out together.

She sent him a remark that day and told him that they shouldn't talk anymore. He texted her back and said he understands. She showed me all this on her mobile phone. I thought her the same as she was regretful and that it wouldn't ripen again. Having the status of in addition to I've been read-through on our mobile phone price list and I don't see everywhere that they own up been talking. I persuaded negotiations she was real in her self-punishment and she was leaving to stop talking to him. So today, I'm around the divide into four parts and I contracted to explore her lethal. I inspected it in front the same as the texting was leaving on but I didn't find no matter what uncertain. I checked her browser history today and I upright out that she has been logging into her judgment email and mode messages to persona. I'm 100% required it is him in the same way as this is the enormously email system they use on their job. I don't own up her password so I can't make the emails. Her Facebook was in advance logged in and I didn't see any have an effect messages on offering. They aren't durable friends on Facebook.

So in march, she is still talking to this guy. I don't own up make to the emails yet but I own up installed a keylogger onto her lethal. Equally I want to alert is can I get in trouble correctly by having this keylogger on her lethal. Likewise, seeing that I'm in the vicinity positive they are in a offend relationship, I want to turn this guys life upside down. Is it a good idea to save validation to the job the same as I get it or is that a bad idea? Essential I try contacting his husband the same as I get validation or is that anyway a bad idea? I'm to the point in which I feel like they own up busted my life so I want to portrait blood. I persuaded do love her and don't want to divorce. I always considered necessary my clutch to grow up in a 2 parent home and I've been carrying out my ass off to give them the life they good point. I don't own up the grant to move out on my own right now but she is drawing my operative. In the end, are offering any unorthodox ways that I can try to find validation about their relationship? As I mentioned, she is using the work email to contact him and as I most probably won't get the password, I poverty be able to read what she is writing to him starting tonight. I'm trying to till myself academically for what I will see but it's prickly the same as she talks to me acting like no matter which is ok linking us. Charm for any advice.