Conversation With Womenreposted From The Meet Women Google Discussion Group

"Conversation can just start by asking her about her day at work/college. Listen to what she has to say and take turns in talking. To build a good rapport, your discussion can center around mundane topics like movies, the latest hot spots in town, sports etc. So the trick is to share issues, but at the same time, she need not necessarily read you like a book. Pay attention and do not grill.She must feel that you do have space in your life for her and her feelings. Sharing a joke or an anecdote with your girlfriend is a great way of putting her at ease (if on a first date). It can also act as a de-stressor after a hard day's work.Talking about heavy-duty topics like crime, violence or things you hate can be unwise. The point is that incessant chatter, however interesting or silly, will lead you nowhere. Do not be boastful about your previous conquests.Talking about your ex-girlfriends will make her feel that her presence in your life is of least importance. A date with your girlfriend should be an experience to remember and cherish. Using your girlfriend as a punching bag (metaphorical sense, please) leaves no scope for growth in your relationship. Avoid venting out your frustrations, insecurities and dejections on your girlfriend. Instead, steer the conversation to the topics of her interest, like her job or career.Girls today work just as hard as boys do and they also treat their profession with utmost seriousness. So learn to respect the ambition and profession of your girlfriend. If you know nothing about the profession your girlfriend is in, do a little bit of research and background work about her job. This will reflect your level, of interest in her and also in things that interest her. Talk to her about her career prospects, her rapport with her colleagues, her future plans.Your comfort level and compatibility with your girlfriend should reach a certain level where both of you talk about anything and everything without any inhibitions. Talk about each other's fears or problems, together you may probably find a solution. Be honest, if you have a hidden secret which may have a way of coming back and jeopardizing your relations, then talk about it. It may not only boost your self-esteem but may help in strengthening your relationship.If you are brimming with creativity or possess an artistic streak in you, then why resort to the colloquial way of wooing your girl? Put your feelings and thoughts into a poem or a haiku, a time-tested formula that has impressed girls from the Roman era!Last but not the least, talking to your girlfriend without any hang-ups about your emotions and feelings is crucial. All said and done, at the end of the day, your girl may expect some kind of a compliment probably on the way she looks, her dressing sense, a new hair-do or you can just compliment her choice of food or perfect skills in communication! "

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