Home Boys Are Not That Cool
Interesting article on guys from Taiwan, China,Hong Kong, Japan who spend so much time playing computer games, that it essentially destroys their dating skills and then they feel angry at women. Not exactly right way to go.
I personaly can relate to it, since my brother is essentially similar to this home boys, and the bad part,i cant change his "home boy"behavior, and slowly his behavior is changing, since if person doesn't want your help, you cant force it on him, but once more open to help, change is much easier. I took him out few times to parties, i showed him how to get numbers, showed him day game, bring him to my seminars, and it seems finally to start getting trough. It is hard to undo years of conditioning, thats for sure.
This is how internet is shaping our social interactions, and changing it. We are in the new realm of dating, with new rules.
"It's not so much that they hate women, the young men say; it's just that women ignore, reject or betray them. And rather than pining away in private, they prefer to gather electronically with fellow sufferers and bind their wounds by talking about anything except the hurtful side of love.
"The more a nice guy tries to act positively, the more he gets turned away," wrote one man who identified himself as Hsuan in a popular anti-couple chat room.
Many of the chat room denizens reject the idea that they are socially awkward, blaming their lack of domestic compatibility on women.
Said one who identified himself only as Klowa: "More so than politicians, women are swindlers among swindlers. They will cheat you of your money and time, or worse, steal from several men at the same time." More here
I personaly can relate to it, since my brother is essentially similar to this home boys, and the bad part,i cant change his "home boy"behavior, and slowly his behavior is changing, since if person doesn't want your help, you cant force it on him, but once more open to help, change is much easier. I took him out few times to parties, i showed him how to get numbers, showed him day game, bring him to my seminars, and it seems finally to start getting trough. It is hard to undo years of conditioning, thats for sure.
This is how internet is shaping our social interactions, and changing it. We are in the new realm of dating, with new rules.
Here is the article
"It's not so much that they hate women, the young men say; it's just that women ignore, reject or betray them. And rather than pining away in private, they prefer to gather electronically with fellow sufferers and bind their wounds by talking about anything except the hurtful side of love.
"The more a nice guy tries to act positively, the more he gets turned away," wrote one man who identified himself as Hsuan in a popular anti-couple chat room.
Many of the chat room denizens reject the idea that they are socially awkward, blaming their lack of domestic compatibility on women.
Said one who identified himself only as Klowa: "More so than politicians, women are swindlers among swindlers. They will cheat you of your money and time, or worse, steal from several men at the same time." More here
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