Gradual Progression Plan To Approach Women
This is an excerpt from the book EndGame, I HIGHLY Recommend you BUY IT.
There is MUCH MORE to the book than what you see below, but for those people who don't want to invest... well try this challenge for a start.
Create a step-by-step plan to bridge this gap that gets you leaning
over your edge but does it in a way that's scary but achievable, and in
a way that allows you to measure your progress on that journey.
1. Make eye contact with five people I've seen around but never spoken
to
2. Make eye contact with five people I've seen around but never spoken
to and give them a "hello" nod
3. Make eye contact with five people I've seen around but never spoken
to and say "Hi"
4. Make eye contact with five people I've seen around but never spoken
to, say "Hi", and ask them a question
5. Make eye contact with five people I've seen around but never spoken
to, say "Hi", ask them a question, and share something about
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myself
6. Make eye contact with five people I've never seen before
7. Make eye contact with five people I've never seen before and give
them a "hello" nod
8. Make eye contact with five people I've never seen before and say
"Hi"
9. Make eye contact with five people I've never seen before, say "Hi",
and ask them a question
10. Make eye contact with five people I've never seen before, say
"Hi", ask them a question, and share something about myself
11. Make eye contact with five cute women I've seen around but never
spoken to
12. Make eye contact with five cute women I've seen around but never
spoken to and give them a "Hello" nod
13. Make eye contact with five cute women I've seen around but never
spoken to and say "Hi"
14. Make eye contact with five cute women I've seen around but never
spoken to, say "Hi", and ask them a question
15. Make eye contact with five cute women I've seen around but never
spoken to, say "Hi", and express what I find attractive about them
16. Make eye contact with five cute women I've seen around but never
spoken to, say "Hi", ask them a question, and share something about
myself
17. Make eye contact with five cute women I've never seen before
18. Make eye contact with five cute women I've never seen before and
give them a "Hello" nod
19. Make eye contact with five cute women I've never seen before and
say "Hi"
20. Make eye contact with five cute women I've never seen before, say
"Hi", and ask them a question
21. Make eye contact with five cute women I've never seen before, say
"Hi", ask them a question, and express what I find attractive about
them
22. Make eye contact with five cute women I've never seen before, say
"Hi", ask them a question, and share something about myself
As you can see, this plan is a gradual, step-by-step progression that leads from
not being able to speak to anyone, to being able to express yourself fully around
a beautiful woman you've never met before, but without the excessive push
beyond your edge where you freak out and do not take action.
When a lot of guys read this, they think, "Oh, but this way is just too long!"
If that's what went through your head, then that's totally cool, but consider
this: How long have you been trying to be able to approach women easily and
simply and not gotten anywhere?
If you followed this plan and did one exercise per day, you could have been
approaching beautiful women and expressing yourself in just over three weeks.
Just something to think about.
NOTE: You must take this progression at your own pace. You must be leaning
slightly over your edge, but not so far that you freak yourself out and don't take
action. Remember, the whole purpose of this progression is to get you leaning
over your edge in a way that's challenging but achievable.
If this isn't working for you...
A lot of guys get to this point and logically know they should be taking
action, but are still stuck. They know they need to do it and have the logical
information to be able to make the change but can't seem to push themselves
through the challenges and take action.
If you logically know that this is what you need to do and feel compelled to do
it, but feel like you're stuck behind a glass wall with your feet in cement and
your tongue stuck to the roof of your mouth, then you're not alone.
Like I said earlier, this is often the most challenging area for guys to overcome
because it's the area with the greatest potential for embarrassment.
I've received lots of emails from guys who're struggling with this so I'm putting
together a program specifically designed to help you work through the stepby-
step process of challenging and breaking down your barriers. It's called
Bulletproof and at the time of writing this, it's still just a conceptual program.
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It will be a level-based program where the transition from one level to another
will be contingent upon your being able to perform a series of increasingly
challenging exercises, but I'm not sure how many levels there will be and what
those challenges will be.
COACH EJ'S ADDENDUM
Day 1 - Approach a Woman and Just make eye contact and keep walking past her
Day 2 - Approach a Woman, make Eye contact and smile
Day 3 - approach a woman and say hi and keep walking... prove that you will be able to survive...
Day 4 Approach a woman and Say hi, followed by whatever you want... a compliment.. etc
Day 5 get used to talking with 3+ topics with a woman.. changing topics, digging further into topics, finding fun topics etc
Day 6... Approach a woman... and try and offer to take her out for a coffee date or drinks after talking about 3 topics
Obviously it helps to have a coach along with your journey ;)
I do coaching at 80 for 3 hours for One-on-one Personalized Coaching.. as a promotional rate. This rate may go up in the future. Also 250 for 5 one on one sessions(80 goes towards it) is another option to those looking to invest in themselves once they see solid value from the coaching program!
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