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Incredibly exciting times here in Drunk Writer Land. One of our critique group members FINALLY GOT THE CALL!

Many of you out there know Mary as Mary Bray. I'm going to let her tell her incredible story from start to finish and I hope you all find her perseverance as inspiring as I do. Take it away Mary:

I was originally going to post this on my own web page, but, well, I don't have one yet, and I can't hold in my excitement.

My wonderful critique partner, Molly, graciously invited me here to tell my story about receiving The Call last week, so here I am. Woooooooooohooooooooooooo!

Okay, now that that's out of my system, I'm ready to answer Molly's questions.

MOLLY: Tell us the story about getting the call.

ME: I was home when my agent, Pamela Hopkins, called. She told me that Wanda Ottewell, at Harlequin Superromance, wanted to buy my novel, WHITE STETSONS. It was my 2005 Golden Heart finaling entry called, at that time, SHELTERING ARMS. I can honestly say that I wasn't very articulate for the first few minutes of the phone call. My thoughts sounded something like, "Oh my god, oh my god, oh my god." Serious chills and goose bumps. To a certain extent, I'm still in shock.

I had this really weird thought after I hung up. I thought, "Well, I guess that was inevitable." After some analysis, I realized that, in other words, as long as I had continued to grow as a writer and didn't give up, I was going to obtain my goal to get published.

Never, at any point, up until The Call, did I believe it was inevitable, though. I had all of the doubts of any writer. I had those moments when I wondered why I was stilling banging my head against that publishing wall.

The Call became more real when Wanda phoned to talk about the book and expectations Harlequin would have of me. Wanda was warm, gracious, and so intelligent. I guess I was most relieved when she mentioned that any revisions that needed to be done on WHITE STETSONS would be minor. She stressed 'minor'. Thank heavens.

My revision story along the journey to publication has been a novel in itself with this particular manuscript.

It started just before I found out the novel had finaled in the Golden Heart. I had sent the manuscript to an editor at Superromance (not Wanda) who had asked for revisions. I did those revisions, but the editor still didn't want it.

At that point, Pam agreed to be my agent. We decided that we could target American Romance, because the setting was already so strong. I just had to change it from Alberta to just across the border in Montana. I had created a fictitious town, and northern Montana doesn't differ too much from southern Alberta in topography in the one area I used.

American Romance is a slightly shorter line. I cut out scenes, researched Montana and then increased the sense of place even more, made sure it was seamless and then sent it to Pam.

She, in turn, sent it to Wanda, who edits some of Pam's authors who write for American Romance. Pam has a good relationship with Wanda. So, even though Wanda edited for Superromance, she did agree to take a look at the manuscript in its American Romance incarnation.

She sent back a four-page revision letter and agreed to take another look at it. I agreed to do those revisions because they made sense to me, but also because I think Wanda has a really solid understanding of story.

Then, Wanda became the Senior Editor of Superromance, which was wonderful for her, but not so great for me, because she would no longer have the time to look at an author who was writing American Romance. I really didn't want to start over with another editor, though, and had really wanted to be published in Superromance. As well, I wanted to work with Wanda.

Pam went back to Wanda asking whether she would take another look at the manuscript if I now rewrote it as a Superromance. Wanda agreed. So...yet another set of revisions to do, which were a lot more work than just sending out the old copy of the manuscript. In the four years since I had started to write this novel, I had learned a lot about writing. It is my belief that it doesn't matter how long you've been writing, you never stop learning as a writer.

I rewrote older scenes that were no longer as good as newer scenes. I used all of Wanda's wonderful suggestions. In a book I already considered to be emotional, I had to write with even more emotion. Superromance was about to take a slightly different direction and Wanda told Pam that it is all about romance. Romance, romance, romance.

So, I beefed up the romance. I think it was because of this that I didn't lose the spark in the book after so many revisions. I had to find new ways to showcase the romance between my hero and heroine and, in doing so, came to fall in love with my characters again.

Wanda loved the revisions, Pam got The Call, and then passed it along to me.

I know there were people who thought I should have thrown in the towel and moved on to another book, but there were a couple of reasons why I didn't give up on WHITE STETSONS. First, my agent liked the story and believed it could sell. Second, I loved the story. No matter how many times I rewrote it, even when I feared I was so immersed I could no longer 'see' the story, I still loved my characters and the basic premise.

My hero, Hank, is even more 'Hank' than when I started the book four years ago.

Besides, I did continue to work on other novels.

I have strong opinions about those revisions I made.

I have learned that there is a time to stick to my guns, and a time to listen to others.

If only a handful of people were 'getting' what I was trying to say, maybe it was time to change what I was saying, or the way I was saying it.

Agreeing to revisions that made sense was taking responsibility for selling my own work. So, if the reader/editor/agent couldn't see what I wanted them to see, how could I change the writing to make them see the story I saw?

Changing the manuscript to target American Romance was a strategic career move on my part. Changing it back to Superromance, with the editor's permission, was also a career ploy. Using the editor's requested revisions was just plain smart writing and resulted in a better book in the end. However, there was never a guarantee that she would like it or buy it. I will admit that, if she hadn't, there was nowhere else for WHITE STETSONS to go. It is most definitely a category novel.

I should stress here that, since Superromance had already rejected it as a Super, it really shouldn't have gone to another editor to be considered for Super. This only happened because Wanda first saw it as an American Romance and then, circumstances changed. I got lucky...and I have a good agent.

I was a basket case while waiting for Wanda's response. I'm so glad she bought it in the end.

MOLLY: HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN WRITING?

ME: Twelve years. I lost of couple of those to health and family issues. Life does seem to get in the way of the writing.

What was I doing all of those years? Either writing manuscripts, or doing research for those stories, or attending seminars, workshops or conferences, or writing short stories, or refining pitches and query letters, or entering contests, or reading excellent authors--always trying to improve my craft--and, once a week, working with a great critique group that includes Molly, Maureen and Sinead who you know here on their great blog. Also, Teresa, Michele and Jude, great writers and amazing critiquers.

Thank you, you lovely, smart, savvy ladies for all of your support!

MOLLY: Looking back on your journey to this point - what do you think are the most important things you've done to get here? What do you wish you'd done differently? If anything?

ME: Most important things I've done? Learned to write well and then continued to study writing and story, joined TRW, found a supportive critique group.

What do I wish I'd done differently? Joined TRW and met other writers a lot sooner than I did. Writing is such a solitary pursuit and the romance novel writing community is wonderfully supportive.

When your awareness meets meaningfully with practical action, your core message can catalyse positive transformation globally and close to home.

Lisa and I struck up a warm conversation in the park. Our daughters, who'd just met, played together like long lost friends, on the swings and slides. Our discussion came around to life.

Lisa had hit a hard place and she opening up to me. "I've recently discovered personal development and positive psychology." she almost whispered. "I've started applying affirmations to my day, and putting out for what I want. I do feel better, yet nothing seems to be changing. I really am asking for what I want " her voice tapered away. Then she asked thoughtfully: "Do you think this stuff works?"

"Fantastic that you're applying affirmations and asking for what you want. Lisa, I believe success in life rides on two tracks. The part that's too often missing is taking the actions that are going to get you the results you want."

The first time I offered this, it was as though she didn't hear me. Lisa continued: "I'm seeing what I want. It should just start happening, right?"

Well, not in my experience, anyhow." The conversation we had may well be relevant to your message, too. Read on

Brendon Burchard teaches that a clear message has four components so that it is enduring and relevant.

They are:

* THEORETICAL

* TACTICAL

* TRANSFORMATIONAL

* TRANSCENDENT

The theoretical aspect sits at the base of a triangle which reaches to Transcendent at it's pinnacle. Transcendent means that at the highest level of intention your personal or business message speaks to a societal theme or need such as love, peace, health, security, prosperity, happiness or the providing opportunities.

"TRANSCENDANT MESSAGES OF THIS CALIBRE ARE LASTING, MEMORABLE AND CREATE A DIFFERENCE IN THE WORLD." That's how come we remember the message of Nike "Just do it" or Apple " Think Different" or Dr Martin Luther King, Junior " I have a dream."

It's all very well to dream and set intentions - there's a second half to having your message make waves in the world.

In my trainings, I add my 5A'S YOU MUST KNOW TO LEAVE A LEGACY, to Brendon's four great points. Here they are for you:

1. AWARENESS

You need to know your message, who it's primarily for and what positive impact you intend your core song to have. Also have an awareness that your message will have outcomes you couldn't imagine, haven't thought of yet, and touch people in ways you may never even know about!

2 & 3. ACCESSIBLE ">4. ADAPTABLE

Your message will sustain and reach a wide number of people, if you can adapt the way you share it. Let's be clear here. "Always stay true to your message". You can deliver your message can be in many ways. I mean, vary the words you select, mix and match your mode of delivery: on and off-line, audio, video, published and spoken.

It's essential to stay on message and true. Always. The way you communicate your transformational message depends on the emotional resonance you can build with your audience, prospects and clients.

5. ACTIONABLE

YOUR TRANSFORMATIONAL, TRANSCENDENT MESSAGE MUST BE DO-ABLE! THIS IS WHERE YOUR CONFIDENCE, SUCCESS AND FULFILMENT RESTS. When you land practical ways to get your unique song out into the world so that others can become a community, applying what you have shared in order to improve the quality of their lives in some way, then you are leaving a legacy. Actionable transcendent, transformational messages are legacy builders.

"As you create your transcendent message as tools for positive change, you're sewing the seeds of your uniqueness in the garden of an optimistic future - even for those yet to be born."

HERE'S TO YOUR TRANSFORMATIONAL, TRANSCENDENT AND ACTIONABLE MESSAGE SO THAT YOU CAN LEAVE YOUR MAGNIFICENT LEGACY!

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IT is a be with of high anxiety in any romantic relationship. But now researchers fix construct that the first kiss may be trustworthy chief notes than someone suspected.

As a kiss may just be a kiss for a man, for a woman it is an the supernatural intermediary of gauging a capability partner's compatibility. She uses it, the study suggests, to assess a "rich and rich use" of romantic and chemical clues that pass amid followers as their gate touch.

A "good kiss" will help persuade her that the accomplice is penalty courageous with but a man who is judged to be a bad kisser is not probable to find himself invited in for bronzed.

In the longer term, the woman treats kissing as a intermediary to influence bonding and assess whether her accomplice has remained concentrated and inquisitive.

For men the kiss is far away less notes. It might be a source of hormonal information but it's in the main seen as a opening to sex. A man tends to appreciate a good kiss as one in which he's authoritative to use his tongue and is compensated with moans of enjoyment, the study construct.

"The information conveyed by a kiss can fix hunky outcome for romantic relationships, and can trustworthy be a basis substance in bar one," Gordon Gallup, of the Scholastic at Albany in the US, said.

"As many forces lead two people to connect idealistically, the kiss - markedly the first one - can be a deal-breaker."

The study, published in the online journal "Evolutionary Psychology", suggests that clues to a person's wellbeing are approved on by kissing. These clues are picked up and thought - intentionally or unintentionally - by the kissers but are chief notes to the female in the role of she is chief inquisitive in a ongoing relationship.

Women were chief effortless than men to retrieve into details the stink of their partner's wheeze, the nibble of their talker and the uphold of their teeth hip a kiss.

Women were less than curtailed as effortless to fix sex with a man without first enjoying a kiss, and less effortless to cart tongues on a first date. Men were far away chief effortless all to collect to want sex trustworthy with a bad kisser or without bothering with a kiss.

Considering a relationship was personal, the researchers construct, men grew less inquisitive in kissing period women continued to give kisses a high supremacy. They were chief effortless to kiss a accomplice at the rear sex than men were.

Researchers from three US universities surveyed 1041 college students, greatest cloudy 18 to 25.

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I went no contact with my Ex girlfriend a long time ago 2/3 weeks of LC of me trying to get her back. The no contact lasted over a month and I decisive to honorable her today just to see how she was be active, we've exchanged messages back and forth, she's hard-working an allure in what I've been up to but I don't get the routine that she misses me. I've just acted placid and snobbish the conversation decent hearted, no note of our relationship or no matter what.

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As you can probably imagine, I interact with a lot of guys who are having problems with women. And one of the things that I've noticed is that almost every guy that is "failing" with women has an EXCUSE - a "good reason" why things aren't "working" for him.

THE SECRET EXCUSE...

I have come to believe that most guys who aren't succeeding with women carry around a "Secret Excuse" for why they're not succeeding... a Secret Excuse for failure.

For some it's their height, for some it's their age, for some it's their income... and for some guys, it's a reason outside of themselves... maybe it's the place that they live, or where they work.

What's YOUR Secret Excuse for why you don't succeed with women at the level you'd like to?

If you can, stop right now and write down your own personal Secret Excuse for failing with women.

Then, see if you can figure out where that Secret Excuse came from. Did something happen in your life that led you to believe that your Excuse was REALITY? Did you have a particularly traumatic event happen that led you to your excuse?

YOUR EXCUSE ISN'T AS MUCH OF A "SECRET" AS YOU THINK

Here's the most interesting part of this particular phenomenon... NO MATTER HOW "PRIVATE" OR "PERSONAL" your Secret Excuse is, IT'S VERY COMMON!

And guess what?

I guarantee you that there are MANY, MANY guys in this world that have overcome your very same situation and gone on to succeed with women.

I think that the "Secret Excuse" is our way as guys of making it easier to avoid facing reality...

THE REASON FOR FAILURE IS INSIDE OF OURSELVES... IT'S THE WAY WE THINK AND BEHAVE

But the PROBLEM with a Secret Excuse isn't the excuse itself... it's the fact that most guys don't know how to OVERCOME their Secret Excuse.

Secret Excuses can wire themselves into our minds so deeply that we don't even realize the effects that they're having.

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When you decide that there is some big reason that is preventing you from even the POSSIBLITY of success with women, it begins to affect EVERYTHING in your life.

So what's the solution to this MAJOR cause of failure for men?

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1) You need to identify your own "Secret Excuse", and you need to look around to find examples of men who have overcome the very same "obstacle", and who have gone on to succeed with women. This will provide you with some real-life evidence that what you're dealing with is not final and irreversible.

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WILL WE SURVIVE? PUTTING OUR SOCIETY "ON THE COUCH": CONTROL VS. SURRENDER, DEATH VS. LIFE... THE PATH TO HEAVEN LEADS THROUGH HELLAPOCALYPSE - NO! CHAPTER ELEVEN: CONTROL VERSUS SURRENDER... HEAVEN LEADS THROUGH HELLDOES IT LOOK LIKE WE'LL DUCK ARMAGEDDON? THE INFORMATION TSUNAMI, EGO EROSION, AND MOVIES ARE COLLECTIVE DREAMINGARE THE CHANGES NEEDED TO AVOID APOCALYPSE OCCURRING? THE "ROYAL ROAD" TO OUR COLLECTIVE MIND, PUTTING OUR SOCIETY "ON THE COUCH"IS THERE ANY EVIDENCE THAT THE CHANGES THAT NEED TO HAPPEN FOR US TO STAVE OFF APOCALYPSE AND SAVE OUR WORLD ARE ACTUALLY OCCURRING? THE "ROYAL ROAD" TO OUR COLLECTIVE MINDI HAVE MENTIONED THERE ARE STUDIES OF THE PSYCHOLOGY OF GENERATIONS, BEGINNING WITH THE BABY-BOOMERS OR SIXTIES GENERATION, THAT SHOW BOTH AN INCREASED ACCESS TO THE PERINATAL AS WELL AS A TENDENCY TO ACT OUT PERINATAL INFLUENCES IN LESS HARMFUL...THOUGH MORE BLATANT...WAYS THAN GENERATIONS PRIOR. WE HAVE SEEN THAT THIS TENDENCY GOES HAND IN HAND WITH ACTUAL ENGAGEMENT IN ACTIVITIES TO COUNTER THE NEGATIVE PERINATAL ACT-OUTS THAT EXIST IN OUR ENVIRONMENT, FOR EXAMPLE, CAMPAIGNING AGAINST WAR, POLLUTION, RACISM, VIOLENCE, AND SO ON. BUT IN "CHAPTER THREE: THE PERINATAL MEDIA," I INTRODUCED THE COMMON ANTHROPOLOGICAL TENET THAT THE PROJECTIVE SYSTEMS OF A CULTURE-THAT IS, ITS ART AND ARTIFACTS-CAN BE ANALYZED TO GET A GLIMPSE INTO THE WORLDVIEW OF A PARTICULAR SOCIETY. FOR OUR PURPOSES, I POINTED OUT HOW OUR MOVIES ARE ESPECIALLY POTENT GLIMPSES INTO OUR COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUSNESS AS WELL AS OUR COLLECTIVE UNCONSCIOUS. YOU MIGHT SAY THAT OUR CINEMA IS THE "ROYAL ROAD" TO OUR COLLECTIVE UNCONSCIOUS. MOVIES AS COLLECTIVE DREAMINGOUR FLICKS PERFORM ADMIRABLY WELL AS COLLECTIVE DREAMS IN THAT, UNLIKE THE OTHER PRODUCTS OF OUR COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUSNESS SUCH AS OTHER ART AND ARTIFACTS, THEY ARE MULTIMEDIA STORIES, MUCH LIKE DREAMS ARE. BUT MORE THAN THAT, THEY ARE SHARED BY MORE OF THE POPULACE THAN ANY OTHER ART FORM. I AM NOT INCLUDING TV SEPARATELY AS AN ART FORM, SINCE I PUT IT IN THE SAME CATEGORY AS FILMS, ESPECIALLY WHEN MANY FILMS ARE BROADCAST ON TV AND MUCH ELSE ON TV ALSO HAS THE SAME CHARACTER OF BEING MULTIMEDIA STORIES. "FINALLY, THE STRENGTH OF A PARTICULAR ELEMENT OF THE COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUSNESS CAN BE EASILY DETERMINED BY THE POPULARITY OF A PARTICULAR MOVIE THAT REPRESENTS IT OR BY THAT ELEMENT'S INCREASING INCLUSION IN A NUMBER OF FILMS. FOR EXAMPLE, IN "THE PERINATAL MEDIA, I DISCUSSED THE EMERGING NEW ELEMENTS OF FACES COMING OUT OF WALLS AND FORCEFUL ORAL INSERTION. PUTTING OUR SOCIETY "ON THE COUCH"ALL TOGETHER, THESE MEAN THAT, JUST AS A PSYCHOTHERAPIST MIGHT ANALYZE A CLIENT'S DREAMS TO GET AN IDEA OF HIS OR HER UNCONSCIOUS WORKINGS AND CONTENTS, ONE CAN INTERPRET MAINSTREAM MOVIES TO GET AN IDEA OF THE WORKINGS AND CONTENTS OF OUR SOCIETY'S "COLLECTIVE MIND"-BOTH CONSCIOUS AND UNCONSCIOUS. THIS IS NO MORE COMPLEX THAN SAYING THAT WHEN WE SEE THINGS IN MOVIES THAT PEOPLE RUSH TO SEE, THEY ARE DRAWN TO IT BECAUSE THOSE THINGS ARE ALSO IN THEIR OWN MINDS. AND THE MORE THEY FLOCK-THE GREATER THE SUCCESS OF A MOVIE-THE MORE PERVASIVE IN A SOCIETY ARE THOSE THEMES, ELEMENTS, AND CONTENTS. CERTAIN ASPECTS-THEMES OR ELEMENTS IN FILMS-ARE SAID TO REALLY "RESONATE" WITH PEOPLE AND THEREFORE PEOPLE MAKE THE MOVIES THAT CONTAIN THEM POPULAR AND SUCCESSFUL. WHEN THIS IS SAID, IT ONLY MEANS THAT PEOPLE ARE CONSCIOUSLY OR UNCONSCIOUSLY DRAWN TO THINGS THAT EXIST WITHIN THEMSELVES. CONVERSELY, NO EXISTENCE INSIDE? NO INTEREST. "SO IN THIS AND UPCOMING CHAPTERS I WILL USE FILMS AS THE DREAMING OUT LOUD OF OUR COLLECTIVE MIND. PUT LESS ESOTERICALLY, I WILL BE ANALYZING A FEW EXAMPLES OF MAINSTREAM MOVIES FOR THEIR CONTENT, AND I WILL BE ASSUMING THE CONTENT I FIND THERE EXISTS AS WELL IN THE SOCIETY THAT HAS WATCHED IT...HAS DREAMT" IT. I WILL ALSO BE ASSUMING THAT MOVIES THAT ARE MAINSTREAM, BY WHICH I MEAN CAN BE FOUND READILY FOR SALE AS DVDS ON-LINE OR IN RETAIL STORES AND HAVE BECOME PART OF THE POPULAR CONVERSATION ARE INDICATIVE OF PERVASIVE ELEMENTS IN OUR COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUSNESS AND UNCONSCIOUS. THEY CAN BE LOOKED AT FOR THE UNACKNOWLEDGED WORKINGS OF OUR SOCIETY AS A WHOLE. I WILL NOT DEAL WITH THE ACTUAL NUMBERS OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE ATTENDED PARTICULAR MOVIES. FOR I WILL ASSUME OUT OF THE TENS OF THOUSANDS OF MOVIES THAT ARE PRODUCED EACH YEAR-BY SMALL AND LARGE PRODUCERS-THOSE THAT HAVE MADE IT INTO THE THEATERS OF VIRTUALLY ALL THE COMMUNITIES OF OUR SOCIETY, AND FROM THERE ONTO THE DVD LISTS AND THE SHELVES OF STORES OF ALL THOSE COMMUNITIES, HAVE BY THOSE FACTS ALONE DEMONSTRATED THEIR RESONANCE WITH THE COLLECTIVE SOCIAL MIND. OTHERWISE, WE WOULD GET INTO THE MAELSTROM OF ANALYZING CRITIC'S OPINIONS OF THESE MOVIES; AND WITH THAT, TO MODIFY A SAYING, OPINIONS ARE LIKE ASSES: EVERYONE HAS A DIFFERENT ONE. SOMETHING'S HAPPENING HERE... AGAINOne final point about the heuristic value of the analysis of films for the workings of the collective mind: Elements and themes in movies change over time. I have shown how new elements may be evidence of new elements of our collective unconscious minds coming into consciousness in detailing how the faces-in-the-wall element has developed. (See "All in All It's Just Another Face in the Wall.")BUT WHEN OLD, FAMILIAR PLOTS HAVE DIFFERENT OUTCOMES, THIS IS IMPORTANT AS WELL. WHEN ELEMENTS CHANGE OR EVOLVE OVER TIME, THIS SPEAKS OF SOMETHING GOING ON. THIS POINTS TO CHANGES OR EVOLUTIONS IN OUR COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUSNESS. AND WHEN ELEMENTS AND THEMES AND PLOTS CHANGE OR EVOLVE RAPIDLY, WE CAN ACCURATELY SAY THAT THE CHANGES IN CONSCIOUSNESS ARE EQUALLY SWIFT. THESE ARE SOME OF THE TOOLS WE WILL BE USING IN THIS AND UPCOMING CHAPTERS AS WE TAKE A LOOK AT A FEW EXAMPLES OF MAINSTREAM FILMS AND WHAT THEY MIGHT BE REFLECTING BACK TO US ABOUT OUR OWN SOCIETY'S CHANGES IN CONSCIOUSNESS. BUT FIRST LET ME SAY SOMETHING ABOUT WHAT MAY TURN OUT TO BE THE MOST IMPORTANT OF THE THEMATIC EVOLUTIONS OR CHANGES IN FILM ELEMENTS THAT WE HAVE BEEN SEEING. INFORMATION AVALANCHE AND PRE- AND PERINATAL THEMESIN THE LAST HALF CENTURY WE HAVE BEEN HEARING A GREAT DEAL ABOUT THE NEED TO EXPAND CONSCIOUSNESS TO BALANCE THE NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF THE EXTREMES OF TECHNOLOGICAL ADVANCE. FORTUNATELY THIS CHANGE OF CONSCIOUSNESS IS TO SOME EXTENT INEVITABLE-OR AT LEAST GREATLY AIDED-BY CERTAIN SIDE EFFECTS OF THE TECHNOLOGICAL EXPLOSION...SPECIFICALLY IN THE AREA OF TELECOMMUNICATIONS. EGO-ERODING INFORMATION DELUGEAS CULTURAL BOUNDARIES ARE ERODED BY A MULTICULTURAL INFORMATION AVALANCHE, PEOPLE ARE FORCED TO LOWER THEIR INNER DEFENSES AND EGO BOUNDARIES. CONFRONTED BY SUCH INCOMING INFORMATION PEOPLE WILL EITHER TAKE SOME OF IT IN, LEARN, AND THEREBY GROW BEYOND THEIR FORMER SELVES OR THEY WILL NEED TO EXPEND THEMSELVES IN AN ALL-OUT EFFORT TO SHORE THEM UP. A POTENT EXAMPLE OF THE FIRST, CURRENTLY, IS THE WAY PEOPLE WORLDWIDE ARE OPENING TO AND LEARNING FROM EACH OTHER USING SOCIAL MEDIA VIA THE INTERNET; THE REVOLUTIONARY POTENTIAL OF THIS CREATION OF AN OPEN GLOBAL CONSCIOUSNESS IS ALREADY SHOWING ITSELF IN UPRISING FOR DEMOCRACIES AND ECONOMIC JUSTICE VIRTUALLY EVERYWHERE ON EARTH. A CLEAR EXAMPLE OF THE SECOND-WHERE FOLKS ARE PUTTING EVERYTHING INTO BLOCKING OUT INFORMATION AND BEATING BACK THE PERSONAL GROWTH THAT WOULD RESULT-IS IN THE BACKLASHES TO THESE LIBERAL FORCES, WHICH ARE ALSO OCCURRING THROUGHOUT THE WORLD-AS A TEA PARTY IN THE UNITED STATES AND AS THE FORTIFICATION OF AUTHORITARIAN REGIMES FROM CHINA TO SYRIA AND TURKEY, FROM IRAN TO ISRAEL. We have seen that the first response-where folks allow the discomfort inherent in personal growth-is typical of a more advanced form of child-caring that is centered on the needs of the child. We know also that the latter reaction goes with child-caring centered on the needs of the care-givers, or parents...and "not" the child. In this latter instance of parenting, it is understandably called child"-rearing "or "raising "a child as opposed to "child-caring. "We have noticed that the first response goes along with increased self-analysis and introspection and the latter one with acting out, aggression, and culture war.INFORMATION TSUNAMI PUSHES CONSCIOUSNESS REVOLUTION"SO, THIS TSUNAMI OF INFORMATION IN ALL AREAS, WHERE PREVIOUSLY WE COULD SMUGLY HOLD FORTH EGO-SATISFYING VIEWS, PUSHES BOTH TOWARD AN OVERTHROW OF THOSE NARROWER PERSPECTIVES AND THE ESTABLISHMENT OF BROADER, MORE ENCOMPASSING ONES AS WELL AS TOWARD AN EVER INCREASING IRRATIONALITY IN FENDING OFF THIS INFORMATION, AT ANY AND ALL COSTS". I DISCUSSED AT LENGTH IN A PREVIOUS SECTION HOW THIS INFORMATIONAL UPSWELLING HAS LED TO A NEED TO PROCESS IT ALL IN NEW SOCIAL FORMATS AND THE RITUALS OF THE TALK AND REALITY SHOWS."CONSCIOUSNESS RAISING" AS "SHOVELING IT"FOR THE MOST PART, THIS GROWTH OR EXPANSION OF CONSCIOUSNESS, WHEN IT HAPPENS, IS SEEN AS A LINEAR INCREASE AND CORRESPONDINGLY IS LABELED A "RAISING" OF CONSCIOUSNESS. THIS IS TRUE WHETHER WE ARE TALKING ABOUT SOCIETAL OR INDIVIDUAL PROGRESS. KEN WILBER'S TRANSPERSONAL THEORY IS THE MOST POPULAR VERSION OF SUCH A LADDER-STYLE PATH. IN IT THE PROCESS OF GROWTH IS ANALOGOUS TO THAT OF CLIMBING A MOUNTAIN OR SHOVELING COMPOST INTO A PICKUP TRUCK-ONE SIMPLY MOVES UPWARD OR PILES IT ON. ["FOOTNOTE 1"]BUT THERE ARE THOSE WHO THINK OTHERWISE. YES, TINA TURNER, WE DO NEED ANOTHER HERO... A DIFFERENT KIND: THE PATH TO HEAVEN LEADS THROUGH HELLRELIGIONS ARE ABOUT CONTROL; SPIRITUALITY, SURRENDER. LET GO, LET GOD TO CORRECT AN ARROGANT MODERN EGOTHE PATH TO HEAVEN LEADS THROUGH HELL"THOSE IN THE KNOW ABOUT THE PERVASIVE PRE- AND PERINATAL INFLUENCE ON PERSONALITY AND BEHAVIOR, AND ESPECIALLY THOSE OF US ACTIVELY ENGAGED IN WORKING THROUGH THE EFFECTS OF SUCH EARLY TRAUMAS, ARE FULLY AWARE, LIKE DANTE, THAT THE PATH TO HEAVEN LEADS THROUGH HELL. WE HAVE FOUND THAT THE PATH TO THE TRANSPERSONAL LIGHT LEADS THROUGH THE PSYCHODYNAMIC AND PERINATAL DARKNESS, THAT THE PATH UP AND THE PATH DOWN ARE PARTS OF THE SAME PATH OUTWARD. [FOOTNOTE 2"]A DARK AND HIDEOUS SHADOW WORLDOUR EXPERIENCE HAS BEEN THAT THE INFORMATION AVALANCHE AND MULTICULTURAL ONSLAUGHT HAVE ERODED OUR PERSONAL BOUNDARIES TO AN INFLUX, NOT ONLY OF TRANSPERSONAL BLISS-LOVE-COMPASSION, BUT EQUALLY-AND VERY OFTEN, INITIALLY-TO A DARK AND HIDEOUS SHADOW WORLD, A BACKWARDS BIZARRO WORLD, OF PERNICIOUS AND INSIDIOUS DISORGANIZED FEELINGS COMPRISED OF ELEMENTS ANCIENT, INFANTILE, PATHOLOGICAL, BIOLOGICAL, SCATOLOGICAL, AND PERINATAL. THESE ARE SOME OF THE FORMS SPIRITUAL EMERGENCE CAN TAKE, ESPECIALLY INITIALLY. AND THEY ARE THE ONES MOST LIKELY TO BE SEEN AS SPIRITUAL EMERGENCIES. PRE- AND PERINATAL THEMES IN CINEMATHEREFORE, IT IS INTERESTING TO SEE THESE VIEWS CONFIRMED BY THE BUBBLING UP OF PSYCHODYNAMIC AND PERINATAL THEMES IN OUR COLLECTIVE CONSCIOUSNESS AS EVIDENCED BY CURRENT FILMS, BOOKS, AND MUSIC. I HAVE MENTIONED THE PRE- AND PERINATAL THEMES AND SYMBOLISM IN FILMS AND EXPLAINED WHY, ALONG WITH OTHER ELEMENTS OF POSTMODERN TIMES, THEY ARE EVIDENCE OF SOMETHING SIGNIFICANT OCCURRING IN THE CONSCIOUSNESS OF OUR AGE-AN EMERGING PERINATAL UNCONSCIOUS. BUT THERE IS ANOTHER ELEMENT EVOLVING IN CURRENT FILMS WHICH HAS TO DO WITH A CHANGING OR EVOLVING COLLECTIVE ATTITUDE TOWARD THESE PERINATAL ELEMENTS. AND ALONG WITH A CHANGING ATTITUDE, THERE IS EVIDENCE POINTING TO AN EVOLVING COLLECTIVE RESPONSE TO IT. CONTROL VS. SURRENDER, DEATH VS. LIFE"CONTROL SPIRITUALITIES" AND PATRIARCHAL CULTURESSPECIFICALLY, A DIFFERENT KIND OF HEROIC RESPONSE, WHICH CHARACTERIZES THE PERINATAL ARENA, CAN BE SAID TO CHARACTERIZE THE POSTMODERN MOVIES REPLETE WITH PERINATAL SYMBOLISM. MOST STRIKING OF ALL, THIS DIFFERENT KIND OF HEROIC RESPONSE CORRESPONDS TO A DIFFERENT KIND OF SPIRITUALITY THAN WHAT IS COMMONLY PORTRAYED IN THIS SOCIETY, OR AT LEAST HAS BEEN THE NORM UP UNTIL NOW. "FOR BASICALLY THERE ARE "CONTROL" SPIRITUALITIES AND "SURRENDER" SPIRITUALITIES, WITH RARELY THE TWAIN MEETING. "CONTROL SPIRITUALITIES" ARE ADAPTED TO PATRIARCHAL CULTURES AND INVOLVE THE USE OF THE EGO TO "CONTROL" AND BE IN CHARGE OF EVEN THE REALMS OF THE SUPERNATURAL. THIS IS SO BECAUSE AN ULTIMATE EVIL-A DEVIL OR SATAN-IS POSTULATED, WHICH IS GIVEN EQUAL WEIGHT ALONG WITH GOD IN DETERMINING ONE'S ULTIMATE FATE. THIS TYPE OF SPIRITUALITY IS NORMALLY WHAT IS CALLED RELIGION". "SURRENDER SPIRITUALITIES" AND GOD AS BEING GOODBUT THERE IS ANOTHER BRAND OF SPIRITUALITY THAT IS BASED ON A BELIEF IN THE ULTIMATE GOODNESS AND RIGHTNESS OF ALL THAT IS. GOD'S GOODNESS BEING ESSENTIALLY THE DOMINANT FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE, HEREIN IT IS CONSIDERED SAFE TO "SURRENDER" IN ONE'S RELATION TO REALITY, TO EXPECT THAT ONE WILL BE GUIDED CORRECTLY, IN FACT PERFECTLY, IN THE ACT OF LETTING GO. THUS LETTING GO IS NOT TO BE FEARED-AS IN THE CONTROL SPIRITUALITY-BUT IS TO BE PRACTICED AND FOSTERED. IN THIS PERSPECTIVE, WHICH WE MIGHT CALL SURRENDER SPIRITUALITY, CONTROL IS SEEN AS THE PROBLEM, NOT THE SOLUTION. "CONTROL" AND "SURRENDER" PSYCHOTHERAPIESOF COURSE THESE TWO APPROACHES TO SPIRITUALITY REPRESENT TWO APPROACHES TO PSYCHOTHERAPY AS WELL. "THE CONTROL ATTITUDE IS THE DOMINANT MODE OF PSYCHOANALYTICALLY-BASED APPROACHES-THOSE IN WHICH THE "DEMON" OF THE ID" IS POSTULATED. THE ATTITUDE OF "LETTING GO" AND "SURRENDER," ON THE OTHER HAND, IS THE DOMINANT MODE OF THE EXPERIENTIAL PSYCHOTHERAPIES, WHICH ARE THEMSELVES ROOTED IN THE TRADITION OF HUMANISTIC PSYCHOLOGY WITH ITS BELIEF IN THE ULTIMATE GOODNESS OF THE HUMAN ORGANISM AND WHICH THUS ALLOWS A FAITH IN THE ULTIMATE RIGHTNESS OF HUMAN PROCESSES. "HERO'S JOURNEY" AS "CONTROL" PSYCHOTHERAPYSINCE THE CONTROL ATTITUDE, IN ANY OF ITS MANIFESTATIONS, REQUIRES THE POSTULATION OF AN ULTIMATE EVIL AGAINST WHICH ONE MUST REMAIN VIGILANT AND MUST FIGHT, THE COMMON "HERO'S JOURNEY" MYTH-WITH ITS TYPICAL FIGHTING AND SLAYING OF SUPPOSEDLY EVIL PARTS OF THE PERSONALITY AND REALITY SYMBOLIZED AS DRAGONS AND OTHER MONSTERS-IS A PREVALENT FOCAL MYTH TO THIS ATTITUDE. CORRESPONDING TO THIS MYTH ARE THE EMPHASIS ON DISCIPLINES AND PRACTICES SEEKING TO DEVELOP THE EGO AND THE WILL...OVER AGAINST THE DANGERS THAT ARE POSTULATED TO EXIST IN THE UNIVERSE REQUIRING THESE DISCIPLINES AND, SO-CALLED, EGO DEVELOPMENTS. A DIFFERENT HEROIC RESPONSE IN "SURRENDER" PATHSSINCE THE "FEELING" THERAPIES AND THE OTHER SPIRITUAL AND EXPERIENTIAL PSYCHOTHERAPEUTIC MODALITIES WITH WHICH THEY ARE ALLIED ARE SO DIFFERENT IN ATTITUDE TO THE TRADITIONAL "CONTROL" ATTITUDE, SHOULD THERE NOT BE CORRESPONDING DIFFERENCES IN MYTHS TO EXEMPLIFY THEM? INDEED, THERE ARE.IN HISTORY, THE SURRENDER SPIRITUALITIES HAVE HAD CORRESPONDENCES IN MYTH IN WHICH THE DRAGON IS NOT FOUGHT, CONQUERED, AND SLAIN, BUT RATHER IS EITHER TAMED AND BECOMES ONE'S ALLY OR PET-SAINT MARGARET IS THE PRIME EXAMPLE IN THE WEST, BUT THIS IS A DEPICTION PREVALENT IN THE EAST-OR ELSE ONE IS SWALLOWED BY THE "DRAGON" OR MONSTER AND, AFTER A WHILE, IS REBORN. JONAH IS THE PRIME EXAMPLE IN THE WEST FOR THIS LATTER DEPICTION. BUT AGAIN THIS REACTION TO THE FEARFUL DISSOCIATED ASPECTS OF THE PERSONALITY, OR THE SHADOW, IS NOT A COMMON ONE IN THE WESTERN PATRIARCHY, AND IT IS MUCH MORE COMMON IN TRADITIONAL CULTURES AND IN THE EAST. A SHIFT TO "SURRENDER" AS A CORRECTIVE TO A WESTERN OVERWEENING EGO?ALL OF THIS MAY BE CHANGING IN RECENT TIMES IN THE WEST, AS ONCE AGAIN THE HUMANISTIC ATTITUDE AND THE NEW SPIRITUAL PERSPECTIVES, AS WELL AS THE EXPERIENTIAL PSYCHOTHERAPIES SUCH AS PRIMAL THERAPY, MAKE US INCREASINGLY AWARE OF THE ULTIMATE BENEFICENCE OF THE BODY, AND OF THE UNIVERSE BEYOND EVEN THAT, AND OF THE IMPORTANCE OF SURRENDER AND LETTING GO AS A CORRECTIVE TO THE OVERWEENING CONTROL AND DEFENSIVENESS OF THE DIMINUTIVE WESTERN EGO. CONTINUE WITH APOCALYPSE - NO! CHAPTER TWELVE: ATMAN PROJECTS VS. SURRENDER SOLUTIONSRETURN TO APOCALYPSE NO! CHAPTER TEN: WHERE THERE IS HOPE, CULTURAL REBIRTHINGFOOTNOTE1. SEE ESPECIALLY KEN WILBER, "THE ATMAN PROJECT". WHEATON, IL: THEOSOPHICAL PUBLISHING HOUSE, 1980.2. SEE, FOR EXAMPLE, MICHAEL ADZEMA, "A PRIMAL PERSPECTIVE ON SPIRITUALITY, JOURNAL OF HUMANISTIC PSYCHOLOGY", "25"(3), 83-116. REPRINTED ONLINE AT THE "PRIMAL SPIRIT" SITE AT "A PRIMAL PERSPECTIVE ON SPIRITUALITY."CONTINUE WITH APOCALYPSE - NO! CHAPTER TWELVE: ATMAN PROJECTS VS. SURRENDER SOLUTIONSRETURN TO APOCALYPSE NO! CHAPTER TEN: WHERE THERE IS HOPE, CULTURAL REBIRTHINGTO READ THE ENTIRE BOOK... FREE, ON-LINE... OF WHICH THIS IS ONE CHAPTER, GO TO APOCALYPSE NO: APOCALYPSE OR EARTH REBIRTHInvite you to join me on Twitter:http://twitter.com/sillymickelFRIEND ME ON FACEBOOK: HTTPS://WWW.FACEBOOK.COM/SILLYMICKEL

Adventure Credit: Ursula Coyote/AMCOpening BAD, THE AMC Account OF A METH Lord, Nail clippings Close up BY TYING UP ITS Tolerant Nail clippings AND Chart FROM ITS Middle Kind AN Doorway THAT SETS THE Unbending AcquitNot only did Vince Gilligan's five-season, hyper-violent writing poem to midlife male vexation tie up touch on every slow-moving end in sight, it confined to a small area the Holy Grail of all storytelling: an Actual Tip of Unadulterated. And not just this more or less story's fairness, but one that slow to the beloved and inflamed genre Gilligan each one important and mocked."I did it for me. I liked it. I was good at it. And I was really... I was energetic."[SPOILER Vigilant]In the end, Opening BAD was a bit of a dodge. The strongest moments of the conclusive withstand came as Walt realized that great motto so normally underscored in stories like his: In the manner of you there corrupt into your life, you cannot subdue it. In the end, bit, Walter Age-old was festive. His aid would go to his clutch, his enemies were deceased, his snowball son freed.But the only squeeze he was formal to touch in farewell were his offspring teenager and the tackle in his lab. And as he last but not least surrendered to his choices and himself, it was easy to tell which he loved manager.And that he died sophisticated it.VINCE GILLIGAN EXPLAINS Opening BAD'S Categorical Standpoint AND REVEALS THE REJECTED ALTERNATIVES"We didn't feel an absolute need for Walt to ebb at the end of the show. Our gut told us it was right. As the writers and I worked plain-spoken all these diverse assurance, it felt right, but I don't think it was a obligation for us. Offer was a demonstration we kicked on where Walt is the only one who survives, and he's standing amid the remains and his get family is had it. That would be a very deep absolute but very widely a kick-in-the-teeth category of absolute for the addressees. We talked about a demonstration where Jesse kills Walt. We talked about a demonstration where Walt manager or less gets to the side with it. There's no right or crooked way to do this job - it's just a matter of: You get as tons smart people on you as feasible in the writers room, and I was very agreeably to manage that."Rotten, YOU CAN'T Preclude SPOILERS ANYMOREThe significant problem with avoiding spoilers in 2013: A lot of the chuck out isn't trying to. For all of the talk about DVRs and segmented viewing and hammering of the monoculture, we still really usage a Monitor Be evidence for. Someone wants a viewing community, with hundreds of recaps and GIFs and quick jokes to make us feel like we're not on its own merits on the divan. So at any time an stop working like the Opening Bad rigorous presents itself, the community goes hog-wild. That is not departure to change anytime in the future, and unless you're one of the sad souls trapped on withstand three, it's actually category of fun. So just think of display finales like the Mammoth Bowl: You're either departure to watch with everyone, or you're departure to fastening about it all week from everyone very. Acceptance is the first step to not being so jagged all the time.Retaliation RESET: NEW SHOWRUNNER SUNIL NAYAR ON Leave-taking Back TO Fundamentals Amid Lace with 3 PREMIERE"Stand firm season's was so easily annoyed and just about dim. The chuck out knew no matter which was departure to spate, but they weren't strong what. We comfortable show them incisive happens to Emily Thorne and for it to be no matter which that feels very definitive. You still don't snitch who it is that pulled the set off and why it happens - so populate are the manager fun questions to reaction."Realm EP ALEX GANSA Forum Lace with 3, BENGHAZI AND DEMEDICATING CARRIE -- Again"We exhaust a lot of time at the starting point of this withstand thinking about what would actually spate to our characters if they were really CIA agents or CIA officers and if an incursion was perpetrated on the agency itself and they had some fee of accuse in it. In the end, all institutions and bureaucracies look for scapegoats and we tried to structure out an attention-grabbing way in which Carrie may well play that role and how Saul might manage to be unvarying into that attempt. And after that it's nice to mix up the relationship a infinitesimal bit. Saul and Carrie manage come into bother in the gone, and visibly he is her lecturer, but she is variable and he is trying to teach her indisputable squeeze. We just felt it in this more or less task it was a nice stop to run a stiffen between two characters and give them no matter which new to play."In the manner of UP A Time EPS ADAM HOROWITZ AND EDWARD KITSIS Vocalizations PETER PAN'S VILLAINOUS WAYS, ROBIN Gangster AND WHAT'S Go along with"Our characters are all looking for a happy absolute. They're all looking for love. It's just what choices you use to get them," Kitsis understood. "Positive people are OK playing hard ball, some people want to do it the right way. Peter Pan is an attention-grabbing story." Horowitz reiterated a pay in mantra: "Base isn't untrained it's made. That applies to all the villains, including Peter Pan." For the producers, Peter Pan's maneuver to board a rib was soothing. "One who refuses to grow up has to manage a lot of problems," Kitsis understood, crediting Joseph Conrad's "Focal point of Dejection" as key clue.ALL MY Line COLIN EGGLESFIELD Mechanism UP A Lightheartedness"Suds actors are some of the hardest effective actors in the institution," Egglesfield says. "On an purport sheet, the contributor movies conceivably three to five pages a day; on a TV show, conceivably 10 to 12 pages; on a cover with soap opera, they snuff out 60 to 80 pages a day! So the equal of material they manage to memorise and declaim - there's a lot of work."Generation OF OUR LIVES ACTORS Look into DES PERES TO Advocate NEW Information bank"Ours is like American pie. It's like a spirit of the nation, and I think Generation is diverse from distant soaps in the way people perceive it," Bryan Dattilo (Lucas) understood."They (fans) love what we do, they take upon yourself who we are, take upon yourself our lives, and love to fall into an understudy reality past a day and get to the side from whatever is on their minds," he understood.DIRECTV MAKES 40M VOD Agreement Amid A24The goal is to help DirecTV divulge itself from rivals including flex companies and Serving of food Direct. But the movies that induction on VOD open will only be able to move on to theaters that specialize in indie movies.Wedged BY EASTENDERS: RAPIST Setback IN HAWAII FACES Rectitude 23 Years SecondSalvador Orozco, 49, has been sentenced to nine vivacity at Newcastle Eminent Blind date, in arrears being convicted of a rape which took place in 1990. Supervision the assail, the woman ensured she conserved DNA hint on her body and made satiated interpretation, inspired by an consequence of the BBC cover with soap where character Kathy Beale was raped by bar holder James Willmott-Brown.HIT Suds SAVED BRITISH Forename KYLE PRYORFor Kyle Pryor, landing a role on Studio AND Away wasn't just latest job to add to his resume - it saved him. Previously transport to New Zealand in 2006, the English artiste future sold no matter which he owned on a foible and traveled to Sydney to prod opportunities in Australia, staying on his friend's base and walking to auditions. But just in the past detection out he had scored a part on the hit Seven cover with soap, Pryor had been improbable to give up on his thoughts of renown."It got to that point where I was action a lot of auditions and not widely work was coming in," he explains to Infuse All Areas. I was about to book a leak back to the UK and that was at any time I got saved by Studio and Away. It was like it was predestined to be."GREY'S ANATOMY POSTMORTEM: JAMES PICKENS JR. SPEAKS OUT ON WEBBER'S Destiny"This is a man who is very bigheaded. This is a man who led people. He was a lecturer, he was an director. For instance he walked by, populace hustled. For instance he barked, they listened. Now, he's a man who is in a bed and dependent on others. His physical apparition is no longer what it was. He doesn't concede with it well."SCOTT Devour TO GUEST Forename IN FOUR EPISODES OF NBC Medical Fool around THE Night RemoveDevour will play Scott Collins, a day-shift trauma surgeon who's full to freedom indispensable Dr. Jordan Alexander (Jill Flint).NASHVILLE'S CHRIS CARMACK ON Primary OUT OF THE Pigeonhole AS A Condition MUSIC Actor"Race I've chatty to say that at a indisputable level it'd be career suicide for a person to come out of the storeroom. That's a horrendous category of big name. I don't think executives would give Drive the time of day. That's a damn guilty conscience, but in situation music there's a blemish that's impregnable."GLEE'S HEATHER MORRIS GIVES Leave TO Minute BOY ELIJAHThis is the first rib for Morris and her longtime love, Taylor Hubbell, whom she met in high guide.