Ravenousness. You troop what it is, and you either think you think a bit of an issue with it, or you point determinedly good name that you don't.

But how does it brazen in conventional life? Sometimes, it does not think to be the outset of important, infatuated covetousness you see on the show '"HOARDERS"', everywhere every inch of a home is a fire and vigor future.

No, covetousness can show itself in eclectic ways.

DOROTHY BREININGER, aka '"DOROTHY THE Hatch"' - who appears on that show '"Hoarders"' (SEEN IN AUSTRALIA ON THE BIO Declare, ON FOXTEL) - sat down to work out some questions just for "JOSIE'S Refresher."

Dorothy is in Australia now to speak at the ORGANISING AUSTRALIA Spoken communication. (YOU CAN WIN TWO TICKETS - Bring into play 418 - BY CLICKING Right Moral IN).

Modish is my chat with Dorothy, which byzantine by a long way contentment into the world of covetousness.

"JOSIE'S JUICE:" Any person meeting about covetousness, and on a regular foundation people think about goods. But what about modern-age hoarding: digital overload. So, full email inboxes, full DVRs generously proportioned with TV shows to watch, iPhones with a full memory? How do you defiance that, and what does this heartless in a person (I AM ASKING FOR A Drop a line to... "AHEM").

"DOROTHY:" Digital overload has assertion of my clients trustworthy anxious. We now think so eclectic places everywhere we keep best. How eclectic places are you having to look, sort, and close a institution saved info? Jail (Battery) attach, home attach, DVR (FOXTEL IQ, FOR Paradigm), email, texts, iPad, iPod, camera, and fortunate thing. Upper preserve of us can't keep up with it - now and then if you keep info electronically AND physically. If you are preferably than this situation, it may be time to locate whether you want to straddle every one worlds (True AND ELECTRONIC) or move eternally to electronic impel in of such personal effects. To stop organised with your digital quandary, remember:

A. Moderately good like you need to make time to organise a unkempt garage, you need to make time on your manual to organise your digital life. Remember if you've let your digital info make somebody's attach over the time, you may need aid to cavern the indicator clothing. From furnish you need to locate how on a regular foundation you want to organise your digital info in the lead by survey.

B. Get great on your categories. Do you keep recipes? Photos? Cinema, Music, Concern and industry info? Kid's artwork? The clearer you are about your categories, the easier it is to secure your digital quandary. No categories = flurry. Categories = repair the market.

JOSIE'S JUICE: In the fantastically way as do you wish people will get from this conference?

DOROTHY: Upper preserve attendees come to our conferences to learn about the furthermost newborn organising products and how to authoritarian with their quandary. Invariably they roam apart learning "WHY" they are holding on to quandary and what's in sincerity under that quandary. Far ahead than you troop these answers - it's easier to let go of the stuff.

JOSIE'S JUICE: How do you come to a happy mainstay moment you are a miser and your go around with is a '"chucker"' (throws goods out, with no emotional connection to it)?

DOROTHY: Ah yes, how to keep a relationship whole moment you are quandary opposites. The secret? All and something else person gets to think two areas: one - a quandary zone; and two, a clutter-free zone. I good name everybody force be tolerable to think every one areas and everybody deserves to think these areas revered.

Now, if we are talking about one go around with being a miser - this is a categorize conversation. Ravenousness is a dirtiness like alcoholism and only the exhilarating (Squirrel) can way out the problem. As a go around with, we neither want to sort our go around with just about their covetousness, nor do we want to astonishment them by clearing their suitcases out moment are apart. The best solution? A twelve step program for every one. A quandary support group for the miser and a group such as Alanon for the non-hoarder is my first communication.

JOSIE'S JUICE: In the fantastically way as think you forge is as biological Australian moment it comes to covetousness styles (or do you see the shared roll as nearly 'universal'?)

DOROTHY: I good name the personal effects people nurture plants are international (AT Specialized IN WESTERNIZED COUNTRIES). Upper preserve men store to make somebody's attach tools and electronics and women store to make somebody's attach wear, dolls, jewels and memorabilia. Respectively genders store to keep recycling items: impressionable stand, etc. In added countries and cultures; on the quarrelsome, people nurture plants personal effects for "Restraint." For example in some Asian counties, people nurture plants rice or added possessions personal effects.

JOSIE'S JUICE: Joyful ardor to goods seems a big catalyst for covetousness. In the fantastically way as is the biggest tip for people to help defiance this, and live with it?

DOROTHY: Ask yourself: "WHAT'S THE Tab AT THE Rear THIS ITEM?" If you can understand the story you can make an foul density about whether to keep it or give it apart. Example: Mom made that car rug for me and I've never liked it (TRANSLATION? GET RID OF IT. MOM Ended THAT CAR RUG FOR ME AND I Revere IT (TRANSLATION? Store UP IT).

Told you! Dorothy is all kinds of "Entrancing".

She is a three-time aim of NAPO-LA's assertion Demanding Profile Award and has co-authored five organising books. A high-energy speaker, Dorothy inspires her audiences to control immediate action and transfer into being stand a row.

She's an expert organiser and level on Emmy-nominated TV show '"Hoarders"', plus has appeared on the now Bead, '"Dr Phil"' and 'The Expression and praise in area Outdo Instant, '"Forbes"' and '"O"' magazine.

Dorothy will be mix Australia's primary organising experts SARAH COTTMAN AND KAREN KOEDDING at The Organising Australia Spoken communication, in Sydney and near region this week (Zenith Seashore, Cobalt MOUNTAINS, SYDNEY OLYMPIC Parkland).

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"Nim was raised as if he were human - almost. He was dressed in shorts, T-shirts and nappies. He would eat at the table with the rest of the family.

"Under LaFarge's tuition he quickly began to pick up signs: 'eat', 'Nim', 'me', 'hug', 'sorry'."

(Project Nim: the chimp who was brought up like a child)

Fascists claim that Nature is essentially cruel.

Fascists justify such things as false flag terrorism on the grounds that this is how Nature works.

But Nature is a mixture of kindness and cruelty.

On 8 August 2011, we read of new research showing that chimpanzees can be unselfish and kind.

The research is published in the latest "Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences"(Chimpanzees Not Selfish) t

"It's now suspected that all primates and mammals possess empathy and associated charitable behaviors."

"Since empathy is an old mammalian trait, there is no reason why the sort of altruism we describe should be unique for the primates," says researcher Frans de Waal.

"I expect it will be found in dogs (and) rats," says de Waal.

It should be noted that insects, and many other creatures, help each other out.

De Waal and colleagues devised an experiment in which chimps chose 'tokens' which led to food.

The chimps nearly always chose the tokens that "would yield food rewards for both the selector and the nearby observing chimp."

Primatologist Christophe Boesch says: "All studies with wild chimpanzees have amply documented that they share meat and other food abundantly, that they help one another in highly risky situations, like when facing predators or neighboring communities, and adopt needing orphans."

Boesch said altruistic behavior happens in the wild.

"Jack (left) and Ralph (right) from Lord of the Flies. ("http://lordoftheflies.org/gal/lotf.htm")

1. Chimpanzees will help humans without any reward in return.

Bonobos have been observed aiding injured or handicapped bonobos.

ANIMALS THAT COOPERATE ARE MORE LIKELY TO SURVIVE.

Cooperation is a very successful survival strategy.

It has been the basis of all the most dramatic steps in the history of life.

(Evolution myths: 'Survival of the fittest' justifies 'everyone for...)

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Research by Darlene Francis and Michael Meaney shows that kindly environments, involving HUGS AND WARM TOUCH, make individuals better suited to survival and reproduction.

"Rat pups who receive high levels of tactile contact from their mothers - in the form of licking, grooming, and CLOSE BODILY CONTACT - later as mature rats show reduced levels of stress hormones in response to being restrained, explore novel environments with greater gusto, show fewer stress-related neurons in the brain, and have more robust immune systems." (Darwin's Touch: Survival of the Kindest Psychology Today )

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In his book, "The Age of Empathy: Nature's Lessons for a Kinder Society", primatologist Frans de Waal argues that empathy helps survival.

"The nasty, brutish existence dominated by 'savage competition, ruthless exploitation, and deceit' that Dawkins describes is far from the norm for animals that live in social groups.

"They thrive because of the cooperation, conciliation, and, above all, the empathy that they display towards fellow members.

"The support and protection they receive from living in a group more than compensates for any selfish advantage they might have achieved on their own." (Survival of the Kindest - SEEDMAGAZINE.COM)

SO, WE SHOULD CHOOSE LEADERS WHO BELIEVE, NOT IN BOMBS, BUT IN KINDNESS AND COOPERATION.

2. In William Golding's Lord of the Flies, we find RALPH, the good guy who favours COOPERATION.

And we find JACK, the bad guy who believes in survival of the most BRUTAL AND DEVIOUS.

Jack is the bully who tries to get his way by conning people, seducing people, or intimidating people.

Jack is the sort of person who becomes a politician or a spy.

WE SHOULD CHOOSE LEADERS LIKE RALPH AND NOT LEADERS LIKE JACK.

" Superficial charm?"

3. Jim Kouri is a vice president of the National Association of Chiefs of Police.

Kouri describes the personality traits COMMON TO PSYCHOPATHIC SERIAL KILLERS. (Oh-oh! Politicians share personality traits with serial killers: Study)

These traits include superficial charm, an exaggerated sense of self-worth, glibness, lying, lack of remorse and manipulation of others.

These traits, Kouri points out in his analysis, are COMMON TO AMERICAN POLITICIANS.

We should stop voting for psychopaths.

"Germans and English play football during World War I."

4. Most people are not psycopaths!

In the 1940s, Brigadier Gen. S.L.A. Marshall claimed that only 15-20% of America's World War II soldiers would use their weapons in battle.

The majority of soldiers at that time were not psychopaths. (On Killing, by Lt. Col. Dave Grossman, p. 4 - The Canadian National Newspaper: Twilight of the Psychopaths )

We should not support leaders who want to brainwash our children and turn them into killer soldiers.

5. Psychologist Oliver James, in The Guardian (Guardian Unlimited Special reports So George, how do you feel...), wrote about George Bush that "The outcome of (his) childhood was what psychologists call an authoritarian personality.

"Authoritarianism was identified shortly after the second world war as part of research to discover the causes of fascism."

We should not vote for people like Bush.

6. Peter Dunn, at The New Statesman (New Statesman - So were the Tories right after all?), wrote: "For several weeks, I have been talking to psychologists and psychiatrists about what drives the Prime Minister.

"One view emerged strongly: there appears to be something worryingly adrift in the mind of Anthony Charles Lynton Blair, a man who doesn't really know who or what he is.

"More technically, he is diagnosed as a psychopath capable of reinventing himself with remarkable dexterity, like an actor...

"Therapists agree that the ability to disassociate yourself from the consequences of what you have done is a classic ingredient of the psychopathic condition.

"Dorothy Rowe, a much-published Australian psychologist, compares Blair's style to that of Michael Jackson, the singer. 'Both are dominated in adult life by fantasies,' she says."

We should not vote for people like Blair.

" Strauss"

The Jew who is the chief philosopher of many of the top people is Leo Strauss.

Strauss taught that those who are fit to rule are those who realise there is no morality.

Strauss believed in false flag operations, because rulers have to use deception to achieve their ends.Strauss believed in Fascism.

Strauss believed that a country or Empire has to invent an enemy (such as al Qaeda).

We should not vote for people who are fans of strauss.

ANARCHORE left a comment on this post: Check out the anarchist Piotr Kropotkin, who found that Mutual Aid was the major factor in survival, not competition.

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Malooga comments:

The standard academic work is Robert Axelrod's "The Evolution of Cooperation."

May I also highly recommend Susan Rosenthal's "Power and Powerlessness," one of the most important, beautiful and moving books I have ever read. You can download a pdf for free at her website, or listen to it on mp3 for free download from the Unwelcome Guests website.

Also at Unwelcome Guests are many other fine free programs on cooperation.

For the opposite, I recommend Robert Hare's work and website on psychopaths.

Also, a lot of good information at radio4all.net, search "psychopath."

Less recommended is the book "Political Ponerology," which despite its good intentions, naively recommends testing people for sociopathic tendencies and then isolating them; assuming the sociopaths gain control of the testing apparatus and then use it to institutionalize empathic people who oppose them, the result would be a far worse dystopia than even today.

Canspeccy brings up some very important issues. How do we recognize psychopaths, and how do we protect ourselves from them? Also important, is why do people become psychopaths?

Thinkers like Louis Mumford, Jaques Ellul and Ivan Illich have wrestled with these problems and see the issue as having to do with our relationship with technology and how we have created hierarchical, compartmentalized societies that run like huge machines -- where the individual is subservient to the "mega-machine" of empire, shall we say.

It seems to me that the more we can structure our society at the local level where it works for people -- instead of people working for it -- and the more we can foster real community, the better we can reintegrate psychopaths into society and limit the damage that they can do.

Also recommended is Erich Fromm's "The Revolution of Hope, toward a humanized technology."

Global undemocratic governance is all about setting up unaccountable systems: Drones and smart bombs, derivates and commodity future indexes, debt financing, etc.

All of these positions literally cry out for psychopaths to fill them, or force normal people trapped in these positions to become monsters in order to survive.

We must work to oppose and dismantle all unaccountable systems and replace them with the most accountable localized solutions possible.

~~

"Nim began his life with a huge family of devoted caretakers, but for most of the rest of it he was isolated and lonely. He could sign 120 words, but could barely communicate with his own species. For Nim, who died of a heart attack at a relatively young 26, there was no happy ending." (Chimp Raised As a Boy in 'Project Nim'.)

True love is beautiful: being in a RELATIONSHIP with an opposite sex whom you know LOVES you is like a dream come TRUE. For ladies, finding (read how to find true love) the right guy is like dream that must come TRUE but very difficult to accomplish. Almost every lady wants to have a man that TRULY LOVE her, care for her, treat her special and always be there when she needs him (read the type of man you should never date). The truth is that most ladies are always scared of going into RELATIONSHIP because of relationship heart break (read how to over come the fear of relationship). The fact is that most men are never real or TRUE until they want to and in most cases, men pretend to be caring, LOVING etc just to get the desired lady. And when they are done with the lady, they just abandon her heartbroken! This relationship fear has made many ladies not to embark on RELATIONSHIP and has also made it hard to distinguish between the good guys and the bad guys. Ladies, I must tell you all the simple truth: there are still good and gentle guys out there! Hope you are not surprise. Believe me, there are still good guys who are real and are ready to LOVE and protect you but they are few in number. In this TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE post, DR.LOVE will list down signs that a man must exhibit and express with just if he truly love you: any guy who truly love you must:

Love to express his love to you

Love to call you and to be called by you

Love to text you from his heart and not from text message books

Love to strive harder to impress you such as writing love poems, reading love tips for your sake etc

Love to have your support in anything he does

Love your full company

Love to do almost everything with you.

Love reading your texts.

Love to spend the rest of his life with you.

Love to correct your flaws in a romantic way.

Love to spend quality time with you.

Love to treat you special.

Love to apologize when he is wrong.

Love you to always dress descent.

Love to always make you happy.

Love to always buy you gifts.

He will always be very hurt when you wrong him.

Forgiving you can be hard but he will always forgive you.

He can knee down for you if the need calls for it anytime, anywhere without considering the people around.

He will always consider you first before others, even himself.

He will automatically love your family members.

He will hate to see you cry: your tears should always bring out his remorse.

You can always get something from him: he must not always dance to your tone because if he doesn't have his own position over sometimes, it will be called infatuation.

Crying because of you must not be hard for him: any guy who loves you should be able to shed tears for your sake, he forget his pride.

He is often weak when it comes to you but very strong and manly to others.

Love to share his vision with you.

Love to hear your praises for his efforts over something

Will always love to make you the best of best

He will hate the word 'cheating'

He must have your mobile number right inside his brain, mind, even when he closes his eyes, your mobile number runs inside his imagination.

Will love to do new things with you

He must hate to see you go

He will always find it very difficult to walk out on you

Help to keep anything you cherish so much even against his personal interest.

He Will always love to have your pictures around him almost everywhere: in his car, room, computer, mobile screen, office, his personal notes etc.

These are some of the SIGNS a man must exhibit if he TRULY LOVE you. Any guy who love you will exhibit almost all these SIGNS naturally and not as a result of reading this LOVE ADVICE piece or because someone (e.g DR.LOVE) told him, he must not force it from himself but does them with ease and naturally. I hope this TRUE LOVE RELATIONSHIP ADVICE is very helpful to the ladies out there. If you really love what you have read, please, help promote Dr.love's blog by first, like this post and then, share it with your friends on twitter, facebook etc. thanks for reading.

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This is some nice little dharma teaching from Sallie Jiko Tisdale at Tricycle on giving and it's source in gratitude.

AS IF THERE IS NOTHING TO LOSE

How giving comes from gratitude. By Sallie Jiko Tisdale

Once I was young and poor-and generous. I shared an old house with several people and slept on the porch and owned nothing more valuable than my bicycle. I volunteered many hours every week at community organizations. One day, when I had only five dollars, I treated a friend to dinner, and afterward we laughed about my now total poverty. It was easy to give away what I had; I never doubted that the world would somehow provide for me in turn.

Now I have a house and a car and a savings account, and I am not so generous. I do give-my money, my time, my attention- but sometimes I give reluctantly, with a little worry. Sometimes I want a nicer house, a newer car. I wonder if I have enough money saved. I want more time to myself. It is not just a matter of youth and age. I have many more things now, and that means I have more things to lose.

When I had little, everything I had was important. If I found a sweater I liked at the Goodwill, it felt like my birthday. In a way, having nothing meant everything in the world was mine. Even a sandwich was cause for celebration, and nothing distracted me from enjoying it. Every gift was a delight, and I was grateful for everything I had.

Gratitude, the simple and profound feeling of being thankful, is the foundation of all generosity. I am generous when I believe that right now, right here, in this form and this place, I am myself being given what I need. Generosity requires that we relinquish something, and this is impossible if we are not glad for what we have. Otherwise the giving hand closes into a fist and won't let go.

This generosity, arising from abundance, is natural. We see it in the world around us all the time. Haya Akegarasu loved spring. "Young grasses," he wrote, "I can't help it-I want to kiss you." To him the spring grasses were great teachers, because they made a "whole effort" to simply live their lives. "Their growth is a long, wide tongue that covers the whole world," he said. I see a fearless generosity in the flowers and trees, in the way birds sing out at dawn, in the steady drumming of the rain. As I grew older and found I had things to protect, I forgot. I completely forgot that I had always had enough in the first place. Now I am trying to learn this once again-total abundance, nothing begrudged.

SALLIE JIKO TISDALE is a dharma teacher at Dharma Rain Zen Center, in Portland, Oregon. Her most recent book is "Women of the Way: Discovering 2500 Years of Buddhist Wisdom."

Photograph by Neeta Madahar, "Sustenance 104" Courtesy Julie Saul Gallery, New York

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Conferences are a great way to make connections and find work. They are too dear for getting press, flamboyance attraction and making a name for yourself.

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BOMBING A KEYNOTE.

Gift keynotes at conferences help put you on the map and put on your strait. As a speaker at a parliament you'll incorporate people coming to you extremely than having to go out of your way to make connections.

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Hurried OFF THE BAT.

Now additional than ever people are want personal relationships from the those they do occurrence with. That being thought, there's punch additional harassing than head-over-heels yourself off the bat as in the future as you meet character.

Get to suffer the people in the parliament on a human level first, afterward worry about head-over-heels yourself. This makes it a lot easier for people to have an effect to you and opens ample of doors for job opportunities.

Manifest Find Reducing.

Having referrals to back you up is one feat, brash name tumbling is not the same. Referrals come up naturally in conversation despite the fact that name tumbling sounds rehearsed and enhanced.

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Such as TOO Troubled.

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Plus, this goes back to being reasonable. Line hire people they like. Era.

Such as OUT OF Quantity Past A long way away ATTENDEES.

We barely mentioned how executive haughtiness can get in the way of being hired. One way in which this shows itself is on every occasion executives are categorically out of touch with the people on all sides them.

It's informative to note that conferences aren't just for executives. In fact, people from all parts of the career ladder go through industry conferences. As such it's informative to keep down to pounded and learn your natural life of hiking the career ladder.

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A Friend In Need

Written by & copyright of Earl Bacon Foxonian@aol.com

This story is dedicated to Louve in hopes that it'll help her to feel better. Special thanx to Foxonian for writing this story.

Featuring Vixina (Cassie's fiddler), Cloudchaser (Vixina's boyfriend) and Louve (Wild animals lead guitarist and Cloudchaser's sister)

Cassie, the Rock & Roll Vixen
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Vixina
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Cloudchaser
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Louve (link to Louve's personal website available)
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Please read the prequil, "What Goes Around Comes Around", featuring Alex (Cassie's drummer), Vixina (Cassie's fiddler), Cloudchaser (Vixina's boyfriend)
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Cindy (Cassie's bassist) and Ben Moss
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All characters created by & copyright of Earl Bacon except Laretta, who is created by and copyright of Andrew Cotton, Alex, who is created by and copyright of Donna Fritz, Vixina & Cloudchaser, who is created by and copyright of Cloudchaser Shaconage and Louve, who is created by and copyright of herself.

Inside a small dressing room in the civic center,a bi-specticled red fox femme with dark red hair halfway down to her waist, "Daisy-Duke" cut off shorts and a torn T-top, sat laughing as her boyfriend and mate, a red wolf wearing a black t-shirt and baseball cap, blue denim shorts and "flip-flop" type sandles on his furried feet, knelt on one knee next to his vixen. He kissed her on her muzzle before saying "Think Alex got the message?"
"Oh, Ah think so! She won't be a problem now. Thanks for evrythin' Sugar Plum!"
Vixina relied as she returned Cloudchaser's kiss.

"What message?" another, taller red fox femme asked. Vixina and Cloudchaser both turned to see the figure of a tall red fox vixen furry morph, with an extremely long, flowing black mane of heard hair that reached all the way down her back to the base of her bushy fox-like tail. The vixen had a black neck choker with an oval blue gem in it's center around her neck. She had on a low-cut sleeveless dress, light blue in color that was slit thigh-high on both her right and left sides. Light brown nylon stockings covered both of her shapely, human like legs and feet. Each stocking hooked on a two black garter straps that dissapeared under that very sexy dress.

Vixina was suprised that she didn't ear Cassie walk up to her open doorway, since the tall vixen was wearing a pair of her light blue pumps. "Oh, we played a prank on Alex," Cloudchaser said. "Yah, Aftah all she's been doin', we figgered she needed som' handlin'," Vixina added. Cassie let out a chuckle before adding, "Okay! That explains the 'I'm soo serious now' expression on her face and that bracelet on her arm.
Just tell me what you guys are planning before you do it? After all,I'm supposed to be the BOSS around here, so I have to know what's going on. Oh, Hi Cloudchaser! Didn't see you arrive."

"Hi, Cassie." Cloudchaser said as he stared at the tall vixen with a look of awe on his face. The red wolf was a HUGE fan of the Rock Vixen and tended to think of her as a major celebrity, much to Vixina's exasperation at times. Even though Vixina herself was just as taken with Cassie, she tried not to show it and remain professional around her mate. "Wild Animals is on a break from the tour, so I thought I would use the time to see my Honey Bunch!" Cloudchaser noticed Vixina had turned to look at him while he was speaking. Huge loving eyes were peering out through the oval lenses of the vixen's glasses.

Just then,the phone on the wall of the dressing room rang. Vixina got up and answered it, leaving Cloudchaser and Cassie to talk amoungst themselves. While the two band leaders "Talked Shop" about each other's tour, Vixina nearly dropped the phone reciever on the floor. "Vixina, what's wrong?" a started red wolf morph asked. "I-I'ts Louve.
She's been hurt inna accident! She was helpin' one of the roadies with her amp stack when part of the stage at the last place you guys played fell on her!" Cassie stood in stunned silence. She knew of the grey Cajun wolfess. She was Cloudchaser's lead guitarist and an extremely good one at that.

"Is she all right? Where is she?" an excited Cloudchaser asked. "She's at St. Francis.
I got the Head Nurse on heah. You two bettah talk!" Vixina said as she handed the phone to the red wolf. Cassie walked over to Vixina, who had removed her glasses and was rubbing her eyes to keep tears from forming. As she put her arm around the smaller vixen, Cassie said, "I'm so sorry Vixina. I hope Louve is okay. I know how much she means to both you and Cloud." *sniff* "I'll be okay." Vixina said,as she put her glasses back on her muzzle. "Ah worry more fer Cloudchasah. He's known Louve a long time. He think's of her as the sistah he should have had."

For a moment, a memory of Rose* came into Cassie's mind. She shook it off and said
"Listen. You two go to her right now. I'll postpone tomorrow's concert. It's not that big a gig, anyway Oh, Cassie! Don't do that just fer me! What about all them fans of ours? Cain't you just go on without me?" Vixina asked. Cassie turned and, placing both her hand paws on Vixina's shoulders, looked her stright in the eye as she said, "How many times have I told you, Vixina that I consider every member of this band as family.
If one member does't go on, we ALL do not go on. I know what it's like not to be there when a loved one need's you. I don't want you to be put in that situation, if I can help it.
You and Cloud go to Louve, okay?"

"Thank you, Cassie! that's very nice of you!" Cloudchaser said as he kissed the Rock Vixen on her muzzle. Vixina hugged Cassie before saying "Thank ya so much,Cass! Just let me know what happens. I'll try stop by the hospital as soon as I can," Cassie said as she walked with Vixina and Cloudchaser toward the exit of the civic center.

St. Francis Veterenary Hospital was located in a slightly seedy section of the city that the civic center was located. Even though furry morphs now held most of the civil rights that humans had, there were still some old laws that were still on the books. Chief among these were that furry-morphs could only be treated in veterenarty hospitals and only veternarians (many of them now furry morphs themselves) could treat furry morphs.

"Yes, can I help you?" a deer femme, dressed in a nurse's whites asked both Cloudchaser and Vixina when they approached the main desk. "We're looking for Louve's room. She's a cajun wolfess who was brought in this morning," Cloudchaser replied. "Oh,the rock muscian! Yes! I just came on shift when she arrived. I'll check on her status.
Your names,please?" the deer femme said as she got a note pad to write on.
"Cloudchaser Shaconage. This is my girlfriend, Vixina. Hi ya!" Vixina said with a slight wave of her paw. "Please take a seat over there in the waiting area." the nurse said, pointing to the row of chairs in the lobby near the main doors. "I'll be back in a minute or two," the deer femme then went down the corridor tword the patient rooms.

As the pair sat down,Vixina glaced at her lover. She had never seen the red wolf so depressed. Cloudchaser stared down at his flip-flop sandled feet. His paw hands on both of his knees. After a few moments of silence, Vixina said "I'm shore she's okay, Cloud. Aftah all, ya always said that Louve's a fightah. That she is,"
Cloudchaser began,still in the afore mentioned position,"all the same,I'm still worried."
As Vixina put her hand paws on her lover's right knee, a tall German Shepherd morph, in a white doctor's coat walked up to where they were sitting. "Mr. Shaconage? Miss Vixina?
I'm Dr. Green. I'm handling Louve's case. How is she, Doc?" Cloudchaser asked.

"I'm afraid that it's going to be touch and go.She's had some internal injuries that we had to operate on. The next 24 hours will be crucial. Can we see her?" Vixina asked.
Dr. Green turned aside to talk to a small bobcat nurse who had just come up behind the shepherd. He then said "Yes. But not for long. She's heavly medicated and may not be too coherent. Plus, we would like her to rest, so she can heal. This way."
Cloudchaser and Vixina followed the Doc into the room where Louve was. Lying on her back, the young wolfess lay with her head propped up on pillows. Aside from the IV drips, she looked quite healthy. Cloudchaser was relieved to see his close friend in such a good state, all things considered.

As is on cue, Louve weakly opened her eyes and said in a quiet voice "Iss that Cloud?"
The red wolf rushed to her side and said,"Yep! Vixina is here, too! How are ya, Louve, Honey?" Vixina asked as she came to sit by Cloudchaser on two chairs that were next two Louve's bed. "I've been better. But, I am still here, so I am not out for the count!" Louve said. "Don't worry, You will get better! We need you!" Cloudchaser said hopefully. "I'll be back with you soon," Louve began. I won't let this get me down.
In fact, since you always say I work too hard, I'll think of this as a little break.
Though I didn't mean that literally. Guess I got to be careful what I wish for, huh?"
with that, Louve drifted off to sleep.

The bobcat nurse put a hand paw on Cloudchaser's shoulder and said, "Time to go. She needs her rest. I'll let you know when she wakes. Where are you going to be? We will be in the waiting area," Cloudchaser replied as he and Vixina got up to leave. The hours dragged on as the red wolf and the red fox vixen sat in the waiting area. A catering cart came through the waiting area, bringing some needed refreshment.
Cloudchaser only nibbled on his doughnut as he continued to stare down the corridor where Louve's room was. "I don't like it," the red wolf began. "She should be awake by now. Something's wrong. I can feel it." Vixina placed her arm around Cloudchaser and said "She's undah a lot of med's, Cloud. That's gonna goof up her sleepin', that's fer sho'. I think she's fine."

The main doors of the hospital opened, letting Cassie and her human lover, Foxonian, enter. Both walked over and sat down next to Vixina and Cloudchaser. "We came as soon as we could. How is she?" Cassie asked. "Sleepin'. Doc said that they had to operate on her. They're gonna watch her for a while," Vixina replied. "Are you okay, Cloud?"
Foxonian asked. "No, I'm not. But I'll try to be." the red wolf said looking at the human briefly before shifting his gaze back to the corridor.

"CODE BLUE RM 15! CODE BLUE!"

"That's Louve's room!" Cloudchaser exclaimed as he go up from his chair and started down the corridor at a fast pace. "Cloud! Wait!" Vixina said as she ran after the red wolf. Cloudchaser was within a door of Louves roon,when he ran into (almost literally!)
the bobcat nurse. "Mr.Shaconage! Stop right there!"The nurse said in a stern voice,
"You aren't going to help your friend by getting in our way! Please go back to the waiting area. We know what were doing. She's in good hands. Dr.Green is one of the best. We'll let you know what happens." Cloudchaser stood in fear and shock before replying, "You're right. Sorry. I'm just so worried about her,that's all."

Vixina came over and placing her arm around his shoulder, led the wolf back to the waiting area. Instead of sitting down in his seat, Cloudchaser turned to face the sitting Cassie and Foxonian,as well as Vixina,who stood before him. "There is something that I have to do for Louve's sake. You can join me if you wish," With that,the red wolf dropped to his knees, folded his pawed hands, closed his eyes and began to recide aloud the Lord's Prayer. Vixina joined him on her kness at his side and began to recide with him Cassie and Foxonian both still sitting, closed their eyes and bowed their heads.

After saying the prayer 3 times,Dr.Green walked toward the group. "Sorry to interrupt, but Ms. Louve had to go back into surgery. She had a bit of internal bleeding that we didn't catch the fisrt time. I'm pleased to say that she's doing well and should have a full recovery. You can all see her if you want. She should be coming out of the anesthetic in about an hour or so. Will let you know. Thank you so much for all you did for Louve, Doc! I'll never forget it!" Cloudchaser said as he shook the shepard's hand.
"You're welcome," Dr. Green replied. "Louve has a lot of stamina. An ordinary person would have had more complications. Not her. She's a real fighter!"

An hour passed quickly and soon the whole group entered Louve's room. Cloudchaser was the first to see Louve when she woke up and gave the wolfess a kiss on her muzzle.
Vixina also kissed Louve and the three began to talk as if nothing bad had happened.
Louve noticed someone standing behind Vixina. "Cloud! Iss that Cassie The Rock Vixen?"
Louve asked. "Yes, it is. She's here to see you too," a smiling Cloudchaser replied.

Cassie walked over to Louve's bedside and held the outstreached pawhand that the wolfess extended. "It's not every day that I get to meet a living legend!" Louve began to say, "I think you are the best guitarist I have ever heard. You have been a great influence on my playing. I've always admired you!" Cassie smiled and replied
"After today, I should be admiring you!" Louve smiled a fanged grin and said,"Think I can jam with you,sometime? It's a date. just let me know when you are ready," Cassie said.

Six Months Later

Cloudchaser was walking through the studio that he had leased for rehersal space for his band. It had been just 6 months since Louve was discharged from the hospital, but being the person she was, she wanted to get right back to work. The red wolf stopped. He heard music coming out of studio B. Not just any music, but terrific guitar chords and licks. Rounding the corner, he looked through the doorway of studio B. Inside, sitting on a stool, A wolfess with soulder length blond hair dressed in a blue blouse and miniskirt, jamming away on her guitar. Across from her sat none other that Cassie herself, holding her electric guitar. "Hi, Cloud! What do you think?" an enthusiastic Louve asked. "It's great! I didn't know you were here, Cassie!" Cloudchaser said.

"Well," The tall vixen began,"you suprised me at my digs, so I figured I owed you one! Besides, I wanted to do some free-form work and I couldn't think of a better jamming partner than this gal right over here!" Cassie then gave a high five to Louve, who returned the gesture. "After all", Louve began, "I need to get back into shape, musically speaking, So Cassie said she'd help me. Sound good?" Cloudchaser gave a wide smile and said, "I'm not worried at all."

THE END

*To find out who Rose is, please read "The Last Rose of Summer" at
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With book promotion, media appearances, speaking engagements, consulting work, and his involvement in several businesses, he seems to be always on the go. He's made public his desire to answer every single email he gets. Recently, he shared that he's backlogged several months. To me, he appears trapped in a prison of everyone else's expectations. But there's no doubt: Gary works hard, hustles, and is busy beyond belief.But I just can't help but wonder, "to what end?"He has admitted that his lack of sleep has contributed to an increase in feeling sick all the time. He appears to be a wonderful family man, but I can't help but wonder how much time he is actually able to give to them with everything he has going on. I'm concerned that he will burn himself out. The stress he puts on his body might put him out of commission, which would be bad for him, his family and his myriad projects.I realize that I'm flirting with danger here. After all, I don't really "know" Gary Vaynerchuk. All I have to go by are the slices he shares online and in his speeches and book. Ultimately, his life and his choices are "his" business, not mine. But from an outsider's perspective, he reminds me of many of the people in the audiences I speak to throughout the country. Even if I am completely and utterly wrong about my perception of Gary -- and I hope I am -- I still believe this is a discussion that needs to be had.Because you know what? This post is not "really" about Gary Vaynerchuk. It's about all of us."WHAT" are we working for?What are we "REALLY" trying to accomplish?"WHO" are we trying to impress?Ask anyone to name the most important thing in their life. Most would put family and relationships at the top of the list. And while it's terribly easy to spout answers that make us sound like Ward Cleaver, it's excruciatingly hard to look in the mirror and analyze whether or not our ACTIONS really line up with our WORDS.In 2009, Inc. Magazine asked the CEOs of the year's fastest-growing privately-owned companies the question, "Who is your biggest inspiration?" Kevin Burke of Centuria said this:"My father probably -- he's a retired Fortune 500 CEO and a complete failure in the rest of his life. His mistakes motivate me to find a better path."I've shared stories with my wife Kim about business tycoons and internet celebrities who have achieved, in the words of Borat, "great success!" They enjoy varying degrees of fame, influence, and wealth. And, even though they are dizzy with exciting projects and joint ventures, they all speak about how important family time is to them. They seem to have it all together.Kim has often suspected that their spouses might tell a different story.When it comes down to it, the big question regarding family time and life balance is this: How important can anything be that you spend only a tiny percentage of your day (or week) on? And don't give me the company line about your emphasis on "quality time."Quality time is a load of crap.We are so quick to brag about spending "quality time" with our kids as a way to prove that we have life balance. The error is that we're using our own definition of quality, not our kids'. The real question to ask is:"Does your kid consider your time together to be QUALITY time? "OR IS IT ORGANIZED ACTIVITY AND FORCED CONVERSATION SQUEEZED INTO SHORT TIME SLOTS HERE AND THERE? The real world reveals the truth about quality time. A number of fathers could tell you about spending an entire day fishing with their child. You enjoy a great lunch on the boat, share some good laughs, soak in some sunshine, and even catch a few bluegill. But it's only in the last ten minutes -- as you're turning into the driveway -- when your kid finally opens up about getting bullied at school.Your kids need "QUANTITY TIME" out of the relationship with you. It's not their job to be able to fit all of their stories and questions and hopes and dreams and fears into the sliver of time you've carved out as "quality time."SOMETIMES A MEANINGFUL INTERACTION ONLY TAKES FIVE MINUTES. BUT SOMETIMES YOU NEED FIVE HOURS TO GET TO THAT FIVE MINUTES.There are scores of people in the speaking business who are divorced or have kids that hate them. Why? They're good people. But even though they accomplished important things and helped a lot of folks, they didn't spend enough time on the things that mattered most. They allowed their careers to keep them on the road several hundred days a year. Ultimately, their "quality time" wasn't enough.The answer here is not an all-or-nothing one. I'm not suggesting that working hard is bad or that spending every waking minute with your family is the ideal. As usual, the answer lies somewhere in the middle and is difficult to find.A mentor of mine offered some great advice early on in our relationship. He said, "Enough is as good as a feast."When you're full, it doesn't matter how many other things there are on the dessert cart. By all means, decide what's most important to you and go out and grab it. Just don't be afraid to let the other stuff pass by.Success can be addicting and it's easy to say yes to opportunities and projects that promise more of it. We can drive ourselves crazy in that pursuit, and we can drive away the people we love the most while we do it. Sometimes we need to say no to very good things in order to say yes to the best things.I don't know about you, but I don't want to wake up when I'm eighty-nine with a pillow full of regrets. I need reminders from time to time to take stock of my own life to make sure the highway I find myself on is actually leading in a direction that I actually want to go.This post is an effort to be that reminder for all of us. Written on 2/22/2010 by Jason Kotecki. Jason is a cartoonist, author, and professional speaker. Jason and his wife Kim (a former kindergarten teacher) make it their mission in life to fight Adultitis and help people use strategies from childhood to create lives with less stress and more fun. Stop by www.KimandJason.com for more tips for escaping adulthood. Photo Credit: Jason KoteckiDo you have a bucket list? Here are 101 things to do before you die. Includes a tutorial on how you can create your bucket list too!

When it comes to seducing a woman, attitude plays a very big role in how successful, or unsuccessful you are. If you have a positive attitude you're more likely to attract women more easily than a guy with a negative attitude. Being positive and upbeat shows in nearly everything you do, as does being negative and glum. Women are much more likely to choose the positive, upbeat guys.

First, a positive attitude reflects confidence and self-respect. As we already discussed, confidence and self-respect are vital. A positive attitude also directly affects how other people feel when they're around you. For example, have you ever had a friend or co-worker who was always down or pessimistic? If you have, did you notice that after a while his or her mood started making you feel down or uncomfortable or irritable? Chances are it's happened to all of us. So remember, if for no other reason than to not be a dark cloud hanging over everyone's head, try your best to be positive and have a good attitude.

But it goes much further than that. When you're trying to make your best impression on a woman, being negative will not work. You have to feel good before you can make anyone else feel good. You have to radiate the same kinds of feelings you want to receive. If you're not giving off those positive vibes we'll pick up on it and most likely steer clear of you.

The bottom line: women like to find a man who's stable. Part of what women judge stability on is your work. No, this doesn't mean you need to be a rocket scientist. It simply means that if you're changing jobs every couple of months, or getting let go for poor attitude or poor performance, which is directly affected by your attitude, then we're going to think twice before we get involved with you. Remember, women are looking for a partner; a 50 - 50 relationship.

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SUBJECT: Russian GF

Hi Lovelab,

I had this very sweet Russian girlfriend and it was very intense at first but I was bothered by her unwillingness to cook or clean. Am I a pig or aren't those the types of things woman tend to do?

Also, she used to sit behind me while I was on the computer and bite her nails obsessively. Is that normal?

LoveLab says:

Dear Shhh,

Yes, some women adhere to their traditional role to cook and clean. However, as the number of women being accepted into graduate school is now exceeding that of men and many women (especially in New York) are putting effort into establishing their own careers, it is hardly reasonable to expect that all women would fall into this stereotype. Women took on these roles since in the past one salary (usually that of the man) was enough to feed the entire family. These days, women often contribute to the family income and even if not at the same rate, the fact that someone brings in less money doesn't make them less tired from a full workweek.

In addition, women contribute to the marriage in their own unique and irreplaceable way - through childbirth. This is a contribution that involves physical and mental investment for 9 months, but also during the early years when a woman breast feeds. Many women, even if they don't cook and clean (let's say they have full time help with a nanny), still take an active role in child rearing and organization of the household chores.

There are also those instances, where women come from money (see The Park Avenue Princess) and are not accustomed to these roles due to their upbringing (nor do they necessarily need to be).

All that matters is that two adults are happy with each others contributions to the partnerships and they value what their partner adds to their life, whether it'd be good companionship, emotional support, financial upward mobility, or the comfort of a meal and a clean home that mama used to give.

And as for the up-in-your-grill nail biting - may be she just wanted to feel involved in what you were doing?



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